YummyBunny
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Oct 13, 2009 4:05 PM
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relationships have two parts, in my opinion, physical and emotional.
with that being said, i just got out of a long distance relationship, not because i did not like the guy or if we got into a fight, but because you need the physical aspect of a relationship to let it work.
you need to be able to hold a person and do physical things.
yes, this guy can be a great friend but i don't think he can be your "boyfriend"
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The road may be rough but the only way over it is to keep on driving.
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Blank5
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Oct 12, 2009 1:56 PM
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the fact you even said 'i don't care about looks' makes it seem like you're not even attracted to him.
People can lie, A LOT on the internet. You can be a completely different person. Until you've met him, you wont KNOW.
I mean sure, good luck.
But you know that people can go out, and be completely infatuated with each other, but then after a few months, or even 6 months find they just dont work.
I've personally done that. And its BECAUSE of the everyday things that you cant hide on the internet.
I think you need to get some perspective. You sound like you've turned this random internet guy into something so much more idealistic in your head. Maybe you two are soulmates. But thats just what it seems like.
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♥iWillAlways♥You
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Oct 12, 2009 1:51 PM
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What'd you decide?
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May Twenty-Sixth, Two Thousand And Nine♥
"I'm pretty but I'm not beautiful. I sin but I'm not the devil. I'm good but I'm no angel."-- marilyn monroe. ♥
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♥iWillAlways♥You
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Oct 12, 2009 12:36 PM
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Thanks. (:
Try to put yourself in his shoes.
Picture yourself at 17.
Would you go out with someone who's 15, faithfully?
Or would girls your age be too tempting?
You have to think about everything that could possibly hurt you in the long run.
Make a list of pros and cons.
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May Twenty-Sixth, Two Thousand And Nine♥
"I'm pretty but I'm not beautiful. I sin but I'm not the devil. I'm good but I'm no angel."-- marilyn monroe. ♥
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proudtexasgirl
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Oct 12, 2009 12:35 PM
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Lol thanks. And your advice has been really good.
I just think you should evaluate everything that is going on and make a mature decision. You are 15! You have plenty of time for boyfriends.
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My name is Katie.
I love Joseph.
Kenneth Wayne Savage is my guardian angel.
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♥iWillAlways♥You
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Oct 12, 2009 12:33 PM
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proudtexasgirl- Well Put. (:
I can't seem to explain things well at all.
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May Twenty-Sixth, Two Thousand And Nine♥
"I'm pretty but I'm not beautiful. I sin but I'm not the devil. I'm good but I'm no angel."-- marilyn monroe. ♥
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proudtexasgirl
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Oct 12, 2009 12:32 PM
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Well then what's the problem?
Honestly, I think you are hindering yourself and not letting yourself gain valuable experiences. So Anthony may be your soulmate; if it's meant to work, it will. However, by not allowing yourself to see what else is out there, you are limiting yourself. Treasure your life and don't let a guy bring you down.
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My name is Katie.
I love Joseph.
Kenneth Wayne Savage is my guardian angel.
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♥iWillAlways♥You
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Oct 12, 2009 12:31 PM
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In order for you to be completely happy with someone else, though, you're going to have to forget about Anthony(If you break up with him)
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May Twenty-Sixth, Two Thousand And Nine♥
"I'm pretty but I'm not beautiful. I sin but I'm not the devil. I'm good but I'm no angel."-- marilyn monroe. ♥
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Oct 12, 2009 12:30 PM
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I tried. I told him i wanted to actually be with someone in person.. and i broke up with him, it was the hardest thing i've probably ever did. after i did, i dated a kid named Jon, and i felt worse because everytime i was with him, i wanted it to be Anthony. It just upset me more, i couldn't be happy when i was with Jon, because I was in love with Anthony. I broke up with Jon, and Me and Anthony got back together.. I felt a lot better, I cant even describe how much better it felt to be back with him.
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♥iWillAlways♥You
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Oct 12, 2009 12:25 PM
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proudtexasgirl- That too.
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"I'm pretty but I'm not beautiful. I sin but I'm not the devil. I'm good but I'm no angel."-- marilyn monroe. ♥
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proudtexasgirl
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Oct 12, 2009 12:24 PM
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That's the thing though. There's nothing more you can do.
Writing letters, talking on the phone, IMing, and all of that cn NEVER supplement for intimate experiences. FYI: I don't mean sex when I say intimate.
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My name is Katie.
I love Joseph.
Kenneth Wayne Savage is my guardian angel.
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♥iWillAlways♥You
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Oct 12, 2009 12:24 PM
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The only way for it to work is if you see him sooner. But that would require a passport and everything of that nature.
Honestly, how are you sure you can never be happy with anyone else if you don't give yourself the chance to be?
I felt the same way about Cody. But I know it would never work because we could never be together. I recently forgot completely about him and allowed myself to trust other guys and like other guys. Now I'm going out with an amazing guy. None of that would have happened if I didn't allow myself to be happy with someone other than Cody.
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May Twenty-Sixth, Two Thousand And Nine♥
"I'm pretty but I'm not beautiful. I sin but I'm not the devil. I'm good but I'm no angel."-- marilyn monroe. ♥
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x.Bekki.x
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Oct 12, 2009 12:23 PM
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i really don't know what advice to give really
i don't understand how anyone can be in a situation like that, people are just trying to help you
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Oct 12, 2009 12:20 PM
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Ok, im going to stop being a (censor). This is how i really feel.
I honestly do love him, and im IN love with him. I really am.. But.. I cry basically cry almost every night because i wish i was with him. We always just say we'll get through it and in 3 years everything will be ok once we're together. But i can't take it sometimes. :/ I know i would never be truly happy with someone else, that's why i do call him "the love of my life" So will everyone please settle down a bit with the comments :/ I would appreciate some advice on how to make it through instead of telling me it wont work out. :l
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