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The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked
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The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

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Last Post Aug 10, 2008 1:53 AM by: ThiNk...
offline ThiNk...
Posts: 167
From: Berkeley, California
Registered: 5/3/08

Re: The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 1:53 AM

sounds like a good idea.
hey, no problem.
hope everything works out.

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offline iluvkovu4eva
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From: Lost in my thoughts....... Praying for the pain to go away.....
Registered: 7/1/08

Re: The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 1:49 AM

i guess i could try i just feel so empty i mean i dont like my crazy aunt in the first place but i feel sorry for her and then at the same time i dont. I mean so LOVES so judge people on what they have done in there past or are currently doing and here she is doing this.. But i have decided that if she isnt dead or tells someone before christmas i am going to break the ice and tell these damn people i am gay and maybe she will feel obligated to open up and tell the family. I hope that it works and if it doesnt then the family will knowi am gay lol thanks for talking with me

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offline ThiNk...
Posts: 167
From: Berkeley, California
Registered: 5/3/08

Re: The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 1:43 AM

yeah cuz like, if everyone is open about it, then everyone can help to fix the problem. you'd think it would be easier to tell family, b/c ur all related and so on, but i guess some people feel embarrassed by their problems. or they don't want people to think of them differently, or don't want to burden anyone, even though by hiding it they only make it worse. i guess, try not to take it personally that she was dishonest with you, cuz she was embarrassed about it, and stuff.

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offline iluvkovu4eva
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From: Lost in my thoughts....... Praying for the pain to go away.....
Registered: 7/1/08

Re: The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 1:30 AM

i know thats what i told my grandma and she made me sware not to tell my parents and i was like ok i wont. and i wont casue its not my place. But she is so emmbarrassed about she feels like she has to be better than my dad which is her brother abecause he drank for years. And im like people were a family we should be able to talk and not be scared of what the otheer think. i mean i know ia m scared to tell them i am gay but that is totally a different thing. I just always assumed she was happy and little miss church go-er and yet she is living a doublel life. And i hate to know that i have talkted to her abotu stuff and was honest and yet she lied to me and her own family. it sad and i mean i honeslty hated my family being my aunt and unle and cousin but now i like hate them even more for hiding this from me and my rents

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" i have been through a lot of stuff this year but i am gonna keep my head up like my nose is bleeding." __ lil wayne __

Let me love myself than I can love you.

My God is Forever his love never ends, My God is my Judge so Judge me not.

Music is my sanity

So WhAt If I aM __gAy___ I tRy To Be HaPpY aLl ThE tImE......? Comfused i hope not

LIL WAYNE IS THE BEST RAPPER ALIVE.

NEW ORLEANS IS MY HOME FOREVER!!!!!!!!
offline ThiNk...
Posts: 167
From: Berkeley, California
Registered: 5/3/08

Re: The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 1:23 AM

yeah... it's sorta like my aunt. we had no idea that her husband was an alcoholic and was beating her and her kids, until one day she just sorta showed up at our house. but even now, when everyone knows, and everyone's trying to help, she still tries to be all hush-hush about things, and acts like everything is ok, and leads everyone to believe that things are a certain way, even though they aren't, because she doesn't want all the attention. it's really stupid.
i just don't understand that mentality. things like this would be so much better off if people didn't try to hide them.

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offline iluvkovu4eva
Posts: 360
From: Lost in my thoughts....... Praying for the pain to go away.....
Registered: 7/1/08

Re: The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 1:17 AM

thanks i hope i feel better soon too.

I mean my whole family has been living just one big hugh LIE and it makes me sick

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" i have been through a lot of stuff this year but i am gonna keep my head up like my nose is bleeding." __ lil wayne __

Let me love myself than I can love you.

My God is Forever his love never ends, My God is my Judge so Judge me not.

Music is my sanity

So WhAt If I aM __gAy___ I tRy To Be HaPpY aLl ThE tImE......? Comfused i hope not

LIL WAYNE IS THE BEST RAPPER ALIVE.

NEW ORLEANS IS MY HOME FOREVER!!!!!!!!
offline ThiNk...
Posts: 167
From: Berkeley, California
Registered: 5/3/08

Re: The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 1:12 AM

aww that hecka sucks. hopefully she can get some help, and get better. alcoholism can have such terrible consequences.
"aint nothing like family"
ya really. i know what it's like to just find out one day that your family isn't as good as you thought they were. not fun.
anyway, hope u can feel better soon.

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offline iluvkovu4eva
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From: Lost in my thoughts....... Praying for the pain to go away.....
Registered: 7/1/08

The big family secret omg i just found it out and i am shocked

Aug 10, 2008 12:31 AM

Im sure that this is a waste of me writing but i have to tell someone. ok this is how it went......

Me and my grandama were sitting outside my aunts house and she told me a hughe bomb about my o so christian aunt. I found out that she is an acoholic. She has been hiding it from everyone for years. This is the same woman that i am scared to tell i am gay. Well anyways i think that its crazy that the people in my family cant come together and be one. I mean i know that i am scared to tell them i am gay but that is different than telling peopel that your and acohlic, My dad was one for years and he eneded up shooting my brother and nearly killing him. I mean my aint know what alcohol can do but yet she still does it. Well back to what happened tonight my cuzins bff frought my aunt home cause they went out togerther and my aunt got wasted. Well just 5 mins before they walked in the doro my grandam told me the truth. I could go ont another ten paragraghs but i wont i mena there is more to the story but i think this is long enought for now. Thanks if you read it and responded

My final thought AINT NOTHING LIKE FAMILY :( :( :(

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" i have been through a lot of stuff this year but i am gonna keep my head up like my nose is bleeding." __ lil wayne __

Let me love myself than I can love you.

My God is Forever his love never ends, My God is my Judge so Judge me not.

Music is my sanity

So WhAt If I aM __gAy___ I tRy To Be HaPpY aLl ThE tImE......? Comfused i hope not

LIL WAYNE IS THE BEST RAPPER ALIVE.

NEW ORLEANS IS MY HOME FOREVER!!!!!!!!