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what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

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Last Post Dec 4, 2008 12:13 AM by: laughterXOXO
offline laughterXOXO
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Registered: 10/15/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 6:00 PM

uh no, big difference.
sex = risks.
pregnancy before marriage [including TEENAGE pregnancy], STDs, lifetimes of regret, etc
like i said before: your body is a temple. sex is made for procreation not for selfish pleasure. procreation is meant to be inside the marriage.

dont be insulting and ignorant. let people believe what they want.
i dont care if u want to have sex before marriage, just dont insult me

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offline SceneBarbie
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Registered: 8/21/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 5:40 PM

Haha. :P
It kinda makes no sense to me.

Why would you share a first kiss before marriage.
Isn't "your body a temble"?
I think s3x is just a choice,
Like kissing.

S3x is just something that isn't important to me at all.
Sure you might wanna trust the guy before you do it.
But the same with a kiss.

But yeah. :]
Some girls just over-exadurate.
Idk how to spell that, but w.e :B
S3x is s3x.
Kiss is a kiss.
Includes our body.
SO yeah. :]

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offline heros-dont-shimmy
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Registered: 7/24/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 3:00 PM

i respect all your opinions etc. but i just have a question for "sex til marriage" people.

when you get married does "the one" have to be a virgin?

lets take the suject off of us and bring it onto our future husbands.

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offline MadisonKidd
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From: Ohio
Registered: 11/24/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 2:22 PM

Yes im a virgin and dont know when i will lose my virginty as long as its with someone i love

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offline beautiful*renee
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From: Ohio
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 12:09 PM

I believe in that to laughterxoxo, thats why Im still a virgin. Its nice to find someone on here who isnt all about losing it.

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offline laughterXOXO
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 1, 2008 8:11 PM

well im glad to know someone else shares my views
its so hard to find people these days with morals like myself :D

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offline cats4liz
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From: Connecticut USA
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 1, 2008 8:10 PM

laughterXOXO::
That is exactly how I feel. Down to the last sentence. I'm glad someone finally agrees about the "true meaning" of s3x.
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offline laughterXOXO
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 1, 2008 7:58 PM

scenebarbie: virginity is really important to me, and some other girls as well, because your body is a temple. God's temple. you have to keep it pure. when i get married, my husband will be my first because God meant for sex and marriage as family builders, not for selfish pleasure. sure sex is probably really enjoyable, but i'm willing to wait because i know God wants me to be pure till i get married.


i hope that opens your mind a little :] im not saying to change your mind, i'm just saying that's my belief and maybe you can see why some of us feel like we want to save our virginity till marriage!

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offline SceneBarbie
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Registered: 8/21/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 1, 2008 7:48 PM

I think waiting till' marriage is pretty dumb.
and Its rediculous how people judge others so quick.
Having s3x is like Eating a cupcake;
You do it or you don't.

Theres nothign special abotu virginity.
And yes, I am a virgin, btu the stupid thig is,
Its my choice, not yours.

Sure he may not be the one,
But you may have had your first kiss with
Not "him" either.
SO whats the big fuss about?

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offline countrygirl17
Posts: 43
Registered: 11/25/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 1, 2008 2:09 AM
recently lost mine
i def dont regret who i lost it too.
we havent been dating that long, but i love him
and my last ex i dated for a year and kept my v card the whole time with him, so im so glad i didnt lose it to him cause i cant stand the guy now lol
but i kind of regret the way it happened
cause i dont remember any of it.
i used to tell myself id wait till i was 18, well i almost made it lol ill be 18 in the summer

i give you girls props who will make it to marriage without losing it, i dont think i could do that! :]
offline a person
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Nov 30, 2008 9:45 PM

oi same here lol. sheesh not many people on this site like that TT_TT

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offline chocolate*is*tasty
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Nov 30, 2008 9:31 PM

i am a virgin (proud of it!!!) and i am waiting till im married to lose it.

i think that everyone should wait, but if they dont think so then whatever they want is wut they want. and if they lost it by ra.pe or wutever then it doesnt count as losing it. in my opinion.

but thats just my opinion.

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offline angelalala579
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From: pimpin all ova the world
Registered: 11/28/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Nov 30, 2008 3:11 PM

i am a virgin and do plan on being one until im married but if it happens then it happens.. its not like im gunna be a slu.t cuz i know plenty of people that have already lost theres so yahh,,

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offline beautiful*renee
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From: Ohio
Registered: 11/28/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Nov 30, 2008 3:01 PM

Im a virgin and its going to stay that way. I will have s.e.x on my wedding night. True love waits, and if the guy Im dating can wait with no complaints, that shows what kind of man he is and that he's not after one thing.

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offline Trippy93
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From: California
Registered: 11/30/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Nov 30, 2008 10:20 AM

No I'm not a virgin. I lost my V-card when I was 13 and I'm not a ashamed. I didn't do it because it was the cool thing to do. Or because I'm a s!u+.. Which I'm not. I just did it because it just happened... Hahaha I wouldn't take it back.. I live life like there's no tomorrow.. hehe

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