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what do you think about virginity? Are you one?
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what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

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Last Post Dec 4, 2008 12:13 AM by: laughterXOXO
offline laughterXOXO
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 4, 2008 12:13 AM

that's okay we all have our different opinions, its just all about respecting each other :]

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offline DarkSorceress
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From: Aurora, Colorado
Registered: 11/28/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 3, 2008 9:23 PM
laughterXOXO Sry tht last line wasn't for u i should have separated it. i respect your opinions and now that you've explained where you stand i can understand where you come from a little but i still don't completely agree with you especially on the sex is for children topic.
offline laughterXOXO
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 3, 2008 9:16 PM

laughterXOXO what about girls who lost their virginity because they were rap.ed? based on your statements even though they didn't willingly give up their virginity they're still less pure than you. And also what about all the marriages that don't work out. you spend your whole life saving your virginity for one man and then your relationship doesn't work. and also what about your husband? what if he isn't a virgin? and you have the same risks in marriage with s3x as you have with out being married. and s3x isn't meant to just be for having children, its a way of showing love, a way to show your partner how much you love them by bringing them pleasure. its also meant as a release, it replaces stress for a few hours of pleasure. some people can be completely stressed out of their mind, go have s3x, come back and still think about all the things they had to do prior yet be a thousand times calmer. And sex does not make a person a s.!.u.+.

thanks for your post, you definitely ask a lot of great, intelligent questions :]

if you were rap.ed, it is in no way your fault. even though you aren't technically a virgin, i still believe that you are in spirit a virgin because obviously you didn't will it, and you didn't want it.

about divorce: well since im catholic, we do believe that divorce is a sin. however, it can still be a last resort and i think if you ask forgiveness from God it's fine. there's no reason to stay in a marriage that is basically torturing you. God wants you to make the best effort, but if you're being abused, fight all the time, have a spouse that has alcoholism or a drug addiction that is affecting your life, and you can't help them or fix it, it's definitely not a good idea to stay and i totally understand that.

if my husband isn't a virgin, i don't mind. i'm only concerned with myself. if he chose to have sex before marriage, i don't love the idea but you know, everyone has reason for what they do and i completely respect that.
sex IS for having children, yes its pleasurable, and its a way to show love. you're in love when you're married [or you should be! haha] im not saying sex shouldn't be enjoyable, but you should always expect a pregnancy instead of having sex just cuz it feels good.

i never said sex makes you a sl.ut :D

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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

Virgin till marriage. Why? Ask me. I'd be happy to tell you what I know. <3


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offline OceanOfTears
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From: Different kind of world...
Registered: 11/14/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 3, 2008 8:49 PM

No. Ha. I lost mine at 15 on my fiance's birthday. Good times. lol

♥Mai♥

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offline xAnotherRainyDayx
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From: Arkham Asylum
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 3, 2008 8:31 PM

I don't think r@pe counts as losing your vi.rginity...it can't be forcefully taken from you. So I think that's a moot point r.ape victims are just as pure as v.irgins.

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offline DarkSorceress
Posts: 30
From: Aurora, Colorado
Registered: 11/28/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 3, 2008 8:30 PM
laughterXOXO what about girls who lost their virginity because they were rap.ed? based on your statements even though they didn't willingly give up their virginity they're still less pure than you. And also what about all the marriages that don't work out. you spend your whole life saving your virginity for one man and then your relationship doesn't work. and also what about your husband? what if he isn't a virgin? and you have the same risks in marriage with s3x as you have with out being married. and s3x isn't meant to just be for having children, its a way of showing love, a way to show your partner how much you love them by bringing them pleasure. its also meant as a release, it replaces stress for a few hours of pleasure. some people can be completely stressed out of their mind, go have s3x, come back and still think about all the things they had to do prior yet be a thousand times calmer. And sex does not make a person a s.!.u.+.
online Laura;;*
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 3, 2008 6:00 PM

heros-dont-shimmy ...
Im not totally sure if im waiting until marriage or not. i think its a smart idea, because you know you can trust him...
anyways but im pretty sure my boyfriend and i will be together forever, we might wait for marriage or else when we are older and are for sure are going to get married.
anyway, i think i would want my husband to be a virgin aswell because its so much more special that way, if your both eachothers first time.

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offline drown_
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From: NY, United States
Registered: 12/3/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 3, 2008 8:40 AM

I'm not a virgin.
The end.


=]

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offline laughterXOXO
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Registered: 10/15/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 11:50 PM

well sex isnt everything :D
its barely ever on my mind
ive got better things to think about!!!

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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

Virgin till marriage. Why? Ask me. I'd be happy to tell you what I know. <3


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offline countrygirl17
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Registered: 11/25/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 11:40 PM
wow im like in shock how many of yall are waiting till ur married. i dont think i know any virgins except for maybe a few. but ive never met someone who wants to wait till marriage. but if u guys really do make it that long goodjob:] idk how u could do it lol. i would imagine its gotta be really hard to find a guy who would respect that and stay with you..cause all the guys i know are pretty much s3x machines ahah
online chelsea3696
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 8:29 PM

laughterXOXO i COMPLETELY aggreee with u :)

im a virgin and am waiting till im married

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offline laughterXOXO
Posts: 201
Registered: 10/15/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 8:06 PM

sex has huge risks - pregnancy, STDs, regrets....like i said in the last post
whats the regret of kissing? nothing. maybe mono. nothing life long. it doesnt make babies.

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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

Virgin till marriage. Why? Ask me. I'd be happy to tell you what I know. <3


Dancer since age 5. It's my passion!
offline 757kay
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Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 6:57 PM

No.
Just because you aren't a virgin doesn't mean you're a s l u t.

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But i'm more into girls.
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offline SceneBarbie
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Registered: 8/21/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 6:49 PM

I was never insulting you, fyi.
You still never explained how sex is so important,
But kissing isn't.

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offline Alyssa Loves Twilight
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From: New York
Registered: 7/20/08

Re: what do you think about virginity? Are you one?

Dec 2, 2008 6:10 PM

I'm 19 and a virgin and waiting til marriage. My ex and I were together for 3 years and didn't have sex. We both decided we were waiting. I'm waiting until I'm married because I'm a Christian and I believe that sex is meant for married couples who are in love. I'm not going to judge people for losing their virginity before marriage or tell them they should wait. It's a personal decision that you have to make based on your beliefs, morals, and values. As for me, I'm waiting til marriage.

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-What a stupid lamb.
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