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Sep 13, 2009 11:52 AM
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thanks for the tip =]
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xo Cory xo
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Sep 13, 2009 9:10 AM
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ok, big relief dino_rawr lol I thought I'd get bashed for saying that.
I just am a really motivated person now lol so I think if there's anything bothering you in your life or you want to change, you should really go for it. you will be so much happier not having that insecurity. that's what I meant, wasn't trying to sounds bitchy lol. I have a good tip for your problem. it sounds like you have a moderation problem. too modify how much you eat, put all the snacks in your house, chips, pretzels, cookies, etc into little baggies. but only put the serving size amount it says on the box. try to eat ONLY when you're hungry & instead of grabbing a giant bag of chips, grab one of your portion baggies. it really helps =)
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underthesea
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Sep 11, 2009 9:17 AM
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I'm so insecure, I get insecure about stupid stuff too.
I get insecure about my weight, sometimes my height, my hair, my clothes, my forehead (there's kinda this little crease that you can barely notice, but i get SO insecure about it) and pimples when i get them.
i think about my appearance way too much, i worry so much about the way i look and my appearance.
i'm a little tubby i guess, i need to loose some weight to be healthier and that's definitely my main insecurity.
i think we all have insecurities, even if we don't admit it.
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i am amy and i love riding this rollercoaster called life (:
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Sep 10, 2009 10:50 PM
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> I don't mean to sound rude or anything but if it's something really affecting your life, why not change it? get healthier, work out, eat healthy. but I understand how you feel in the meantime. I have some insecurity issues, not weight necessarily but they all have the same affects on us. it's good to talk about it but there's not much you can do besides changing what's causing these problems in your life.
You don't sound rude at all =]
I do exercise and eat healthy, but sometimes I eat my feelings, when I'm feeling bad about something or alone. It's like, i try to lose weight, and it works good for a while, but then it's like it come back.
Thanks for sharing, you guys. It makes me feel better that I'm not the only one who freaks out like this lol.
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*dark&distinct*
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Sep 10, 2009 9:15 PM
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Generally, my body is my biggest insecurity.
More specifically, it's my legs and arms.
My arms and legs are really long, it looks even longer becuase I'm so thin. Most people say they want my body so much and I'm lucky to have it. They say I should be a model. It just makes me uncomfortable.
My dance teachers say my body is perfect for dance.
I even wear sweaters and long jeans in the summer because I'm so embarrassed about my body.
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want my life's story? Sorry but the author I hired to write it, ran away screaming when I told her about myself. XD
"ignorance is your new best friend"
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Random Shy Girl
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Sep 10, 2009 8:57 PM
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I've always been completely insecure about my entire appearance, but my main issue is my height. I'm 4'7", and I have been that way since I turned 12. I am now seventeen and in my final year of high school. Since our school goes from Kindergarten to Grade 12, I sometimes find myself passing by a group of students who are in Grades Three or Four and happen to much taller than I am. As I am socially phobic, my self-confidence is rather low, and having someone assume that I am a ten-year old is a huge blow to the small amount of confidence that I have.
RSG
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"I fear I will never find anyone. I know my greatest pain is yet to come. Will we find each other in the dark, my long lost love?" - Nightwish, "Beauty of the Beast"
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Pomeganate_Luvr
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Sep 10, 2009 8:26 PM
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im not overweight
i never have been
but i have a hugeeee insecurity
i have a small birthmark on my cheek and its really not that bad at all but people make me feel horrible
they stare they point they ask me what it is
ive been told i have dirt on my face or food and some people even laugh at me
i mean of course that has stopped but the last time it happened i was 13
im 14 now =/
i feel so insecure about it because when i meet someone im attracted to i feel like thats all they see and i'll never have a guy like me for exactly who i am
i really wish i didnt have it
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I'd like to make myself believe...
that planet earth turns
slowly...
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the only way to fix a broken heart is for someone else to come along and put it back together
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xo Cory xo
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Sep 10, 2009 8:02 PM
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I don't mean to sound rude or anything but if it's something really affecting your life, why not change it? get healthier, work out, eat healthy. but I understand how you feel in the meantime. I have some insecurity issues, not weight necessarily but they all have the same affects on us. it's good to talk about it but there's not much you can do besides changing what's causing these problems in your life.
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proudtexasgirl
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Sep 10, 2009 6:10 PM
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honestly, no one can love you until you love yourself
you should on that rather than your weight
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My name is Katie.
I love Joseph.
Kenneth Wayne Savage is my guardian angel.
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jojocutie101
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Sep 10, 2009 5:01 PM
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ugg i need to lose like 15 pounds so i am a bit hunky...my friends call me "curvy" but honestly i could stand to use at least 10 pounds....i want to lose it but idk its hard my parents are hard on me...my mom whipped me with a stick she found on the side of the road to make me speed walk...every time i lagged behind she would whip. me....wtf????? but anyway like they treat me like i am obese.....ok honestly i am not that fat...some days i feel like a tub of lard and some times i feel curvy...lately i have been felling tubby....how can i lose weight...can you help? -- ~ no longer a member of the periodless club as of 12/08/08~  ~used my first tampon 10/08/09 and can't believe I didnt try it before! if you havent tried a tampon go for it!~ class of 2012 <3 fruit loop fan club member <3 |
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Sep 10, 2009 4:36 PM
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So, I'm watching the Tyra Show right now, and it's about "A Panel of Haters". There's one story on here that's really getting to me.
There's one girl on there that's overweight. And I relate to that, because I'm very overweight. And the way those girls are judging her, makes me just.....feel horrible about myself.
I've been heavy for literally all my life. I know what's it's like to wanna stay in all day and away from people, for fear of what they'll think.
And guys....I can't let guys get close to me because I'm afraid they;ll 'wake up' one day and see me as a huge blob. If a guy tells me he doesn't care what I look like and that he likes me the way I am, i don't believe him. Not because I think he's a liar, but because I don't feel that way about myself. I know I'm a good person on the inside, but I've been burned too much, and seen other girls get burned cause of their looks to know that it doesn't always turn out good. I have trust issues because of the way I've been judged and others have.
I want to get these issues out and open so I can let go of them. If you guys wanna get some stuff out too, by all means, go ahead! We can work at this together :D
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