Joe_1993
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 27, 2009 7:53 PM
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Thats great..What did they say?
Your a good friend!!
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Bri_Loves_Music
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 27, 2009 7:45 PM
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What happened? Is everything okay?
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Any ideas anyone? Thanks so much!!
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Tomoyo12
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 27, 2009 7:38 PM
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i told the school counselor about it.
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Joe_1993
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 16, 2009 4:21 PM
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Yuo really do need to help her if she doesnt like it or not!!Stuff like this isn't a joke!!If I had a freind getting abused i would probably talk to my parents or maybe the guidance conslor at yur schoo, they might be able to help alot!!!
Well I hope shes okay and one day shell be great ful to have a freind like you!!
Good luck!
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ErinOvercoming
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 16, 2009 1:42 AM
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Well, as a child I was abused too. I didn't want anyone to call anybody either. The reason why is because she doesn't want her mother to be taken away. I didn't want my mother to be taken away. She loves her mother unconditionally and doesn't want her to go to jail. She might seem like she doesn't, but she does. I finally got the courage up at eight to call the cops. What you need to do is get her to a counselor. If she does not want to go then you need to call someone. SHe could have major injuries or die. Please call the cops or dss. It will be anonymous.
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Tomoyo12
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 9:41 PM
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thx!
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Ckenzi
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 9:24 PM
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Oh, okay. That's good! Good luck...
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Tomoyo12
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 9:20 PM
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i am going to tomorrow, i am going to go talk to the School counselor.
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Ckenzi
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 9:19 PM
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Then why dont you tell somebody?
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Tomoyo12
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 9:14 PM
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he calls her really bad names and punches and hits her HARD, yesterday she came to school crying, she had bruises all over her arms, even though she was wearing a jacket she showed me it. I am really worried about her, today she ran away because he called her a (censor)and hit her, and her younger brother. It seems like it is getting worse.
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Ckenzi
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 8:57 PM
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He abuses her how? Not that it matters.
You need to help her!! Your friend could be killed.
If it were me, I wouldn't have even hesitated to tell. I would have grabbed her and drug her straight down to the police station.
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Tomoyo12
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 8:26 PM
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I am the only one that is actually trying to find a way to do something about it. We have a couple friends lets call them Lily and Christina. and Christina doesn't care and Lily is too worried about her own problems.
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Tomoyo12
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 15, 2009 8:25 PM
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Yeah, i know. I actually got advice from my older sister she told me to talk to the School Counselor and to talk to her and tell her to talk to the school about it.
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♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 11, 2009 9:17 AM
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My only suggestion is to tell your parents. I've never been in this situation but if she told you, she probably wants you to help. She might be afraid that if someone calls the cops her parents will hurt her for it.
But it needs to be done. Your parents will most likely know what to do.
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Mia_Magic
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Re: i need advice! THIS IS SERIOUS!
Oct 11, 2009 8:14 AM
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are you the only person who knows?
u really need to help her, talk to her and try to get her to get help. i went through similar when iw as younger and although i never told anyone until years and years later i luckily got out of the situation and away from my father. but its not going to stop unless someone takes action. just try and persuade her to do something but most of all be there for her, it will have taken her A LOT of courage to tell u and never break her trust and go behind her back even though it might be the best thing to do, its her life in the end not yours.
its really hard to understand but your friend prob doesnt want to get her parents in trouble even though they are hurting her so bad, that will just to her make everything worse even though in the end it appears to us the best thing cos she will be away from them. just try and be understanding and help her though and encourage her to get help.
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