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I'm scared for my friend

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Last Post Nov 5, 2009 5:59 PM by: evanna
offline evanna
Posts: 38
Registered: 11/4/09

Re: I'm scared for my friend

Nov 5, 2009 5:59 PM
You should talk to her and hope she'll realize what could happen. Tell her how you feel and how concerened you are for her. She'll see how it bothers you and she'll fix it.
offline kyor-cry
Posts: 46
From: new jersey
Registered: 10/17/09

Re: I'm scared for my friend

Oct 21, 2009 10:52 AM
YOU realy don't want to make a big mastake --- I would lesion to some advise
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Re: I'm scared for my friend

Oct 21, 2009 10:16 AM
i sorta agree a little. but if u dont make mastakes then how can u learn right? :-D
offline feexx3
Posts: 202
From: new york
Registered: 9/2/09

Re: I'm scared for my friend

Oct 15, 2009 1:55 PM
if she doesnt listen then its for her own good no offence im not trying to be mean but shell just have to learn on her own...
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Re: I'm scared for my friend

Oct 15, 2009 12:01 PM
Ya...when she say says "everyones doing it" she means all her "new" friends are
online jennixlovesxyou
Posts: 331
From: gr michigan
Registered: 4/3/09

Re: I'm scared for my friend

Oct 15, 2009 11:57 AM

to me, it sounds like the only person whos going to get hurt is the guy, if she keeps breaking up with him. but i would talk to her and tell her that it doesnt matter if everyone else is dating (even tho everyone isn't... lol), she needs to realize that having a boyfriend wont make her life complete. i had this same problem with my friend, and i sent her a long message about how she doesnt need a boyfriend just cos shes lonely. and that she needs to figure out how to be happy without one. idk if its the same thing, but thats what i think :)

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offline x.Bekki.x
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Re: I'm scared for my friend

Oct 15, 2009 11:57 AM

this sounds kind of similar to my best friend, she just wants to get into a relationship with a guy, cos everyone else has a boyfriend, and she feels left out
just try talking to her, say exactly what you said on here, that you don't want her getting hurt and making a mistake
but if she doesn't listen then it's her own problem, just leave her to it

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I'm scared for my friend

Oct 15, 2009 11:50 AM
This guy asked her out...so she said yes..then she decided she doesn't like him...but now shes saying she does so there dating again. And she is like its just so hard to say no to the people that like me. The only reason shes dating him is cuz everyone else is doing it and she thinks its gonna last a longgg time. Bus they broke up the first time in less then a DAY!!! its crazy and i'm afraid shes gonna get hurt.