VeggieLover
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Re: what did i do wrong?(please help)
Jul 22, 2009 5:22 PM
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I agree that you should actually talk to her, using your actual voice, to try and figure out whats up. Let her know that you miss her and that she is the best friend you have and that you dont' want to lose her. We don't know if something is up in her personal life, so dont be obnoxious about it, just let her know (in person!!!) how youre feeling. It may not fix things, but it won't make them worse either. If something is up in her life, she'll eventually come around. Whatever is distracting her or stressing her out will fade out eventually, but you (a true friend) won't. In the mean time, try and keep communication open and friendly and let her know that you are ready to hang out whenever she is.
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mz.coolgal
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Re: what did i do wrong?(please help)
Jul 22, 2009 5:16 PM
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okay, 1st thange 1st she sounds incaseterate cus,if u really truely didint do nuthin 2 her why would she have the oddastitey 2 ignore u like that?and cusederin'yallbeen friends 4 ove5 yr's so umm no advice i can give but all i kan give u is a i hope u really find a true frind throeout you;'re school yr's luv ya bye
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peachesANDcream
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Re: what did i do wrong?(please help)
Jul 22, 2009 5:16 PM
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she might of just had a good time with the people at the dance competition (the are very fun) she still has you had a good friend she miught just be super busy i don't think she is trying to be rude she just has other things to do is your worried talk to her in person good luck
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gillybillyx3
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Re: what did i do wrong?(please help)
Jul 22, 2009 5:06 PM
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Here's what I think...
It's okay for her to have friends & have other plans. Even though you guys are friends, she might be busy sometimes with other plans. It is weird that she's not talking to you much, so try calling her. It's better to sort these things out in person or on the phone than through texts.
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Re: what did i do wrong?(please help)
Jul 22, 2009 12:43 PM
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oh and also in between this time she wentt o tennesse with her dance friend for a dance competition, and the people ahead of me on myspace now are her dance friends. So she probably got closer to them in tennessee, but that still doesn't explain why she doesn't like me anymore. she was texting me and she was fine in tennessee
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what did i do wrong?(please help)
Jul 22, 2009 12:38 PM
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So I have been aquaintances with this one girl since 7th grade when we played tennis together, but we alwasy got along extremely well. And this year (10th grade) we had a class together and we became really good friends and started doing things outside of school when we both got our licenses. Well we started texting a lot and telling eachother our secrets and things like that. And everything was going great, and then last week she all of a sudden started acting like she didn't want to hang out with me. Like I suggested we go play putt putt, and she said she'd drive because it was her turn. Then a day or so after we talked about that, I suggested we go this week, and she said she had to work this whole week. So then I asked her to come over swimming this past weekend and she said she was going to someones hosue saturday, then going tubing with her church sunday. And I mean i was suspicious that she was always busy when I invited her somehwere, but she had no reason to lie. But she kept doing it so I said if you don't want to go don't make excuses, just tell me. And she said oh,but she didn't say she didn't want to go.
And everytime we have gone out she has had a ton of fun and didn't want to go home. And she hasn't been texting me, and when I text her she either says "oh" or never texts back. So I asked her if something was wrong and she never asnwered.
Then I saw she moved me down from her number one on myspace to like her number 6, so i texted her and was like "ok so what's wrong? You are acting like you don't want to hang out with me anymore and I was just wondering what I did?" and she hasn't answered me back.
I really hate that I lost her as a friend because she was the one "friend" who was a true friend, my other friend treats me like crap. And so now I really don't have anyone to hang out with. I don't want to keep texting her and bugging her about it either, I am just going to let it go. And I know my supopsed best friend was jealous and mad that me and this girl had been spenidng so much time together, so I don't know if she said soemthing
This really bothers me, what could I have done?
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