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they won't let me date

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Last Post Nov 7, 2009 11:20 AM by: ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: they won't let me date

Nov 7, 2009 11:20 AM

Honestly, keeping it from them won't help anything. What if they did see you two together? It's better that they know. They can't expect you to stay young forever.

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offline underthesea
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Re: they won't let me date

Nov 7, 2009 9:19 AM

yeah true :)
haha, once again, thank you

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offline jojocutie101
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Re: they won't let me date

Nov 7, 2009 9:18 AM

haha if they r your friends they will do this for you! good luck and have fun on your date :)

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offline underthesea
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From: Australia
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Re: they won't let me date

Nov 7, 2009 9:16 AM

thanks,
yeah that's how i want to play it,
but it's pretty hard still, i dunno... i just wish my parents would cut me some slack, oh well.

thanks for your help!
i just hope my friends will go along with something like that :P
I mean, I'd end up having to pretty much ditch them for him and basically use them to stay out of trouble with my mum ! I guess it's a matter of balance though. It would be so nice to just have a date with him- just the two of us.

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offline jojocutie101
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From: Florida
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Re: they won't let me date

Nov 7, 2009 9:09 AM

just say that its a bunch of girls and one of their boyfriends your going with! then when your there you can hang out and when you get picked up dont act like you guys r together. good luck! my parents are the same way, so if someone asked me out this is what i would do :)

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offline underthesea
Posts: 104
From: Australia
Registered: 5/9/09

they won't let me date

Nov 7, 2009 8:35 AM

hey girls,

my parents are so unbelievably strict about boys, they won't let my date until i've finished school (i'm in grade nine), they don't even like me going to boy's houses even if they're just friends or going out with mixed groups of guys and girls to the movies or for dinner or something and it's very annoying.

i have a boyfriend, he's been my boyfriend for almost a month and it's going really well, but, we still haven't actually gone on a date yet. i can't tell my mum, if i did, she'd definitely send me to an all girls school and become even more strict.

how can i go out with my boyfriend without my mum knowing?

please and thank you :)

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