Joe_1993
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Oct 10, 2009 9:30 AM
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Talk to your mom.
I would wirte him back and tell him yur doing okay and tell him that your family is doing okay and i dont know if i would put i love you dad i would just be like it was nive writting you .
Good luck!
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feexx3
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Oct 10, 2009 8:33 AM
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how does ur mom feel about you writing him?
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adorkablevivix3
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Oct 9, 2009 11:51 PM
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if he didn`t care about you, he wouldn`t have written you that letter.
just write back and tell him that you`re doing fine and explain to him how much he hurt you. he probably doesn`t even realize how much he hurt you.
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All-American Girl
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Oct 4, 2009 8:11 AM
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If I were in your position, I think maybe I would just reply to the letter. Keep it light hearted though, nothing deep and heavy because the more you pour your emotions and feelings into it the harder it will be if things go wrong.
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i've been walking this planet for 15 years now and there are a couple quotes that I've come to live by.
"No regrets, just lessons learned."
"You either do or you don't there's no try."
"don't worry about the people in your past, there's a reason they didn't make it into your future."
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Mia_Magic
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Oct 4, 2009 5:31 AM
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hey
basically i need to know cos i dont have any relationship with my dad because he was horrible and did some awfult things to me when i was younger and now he has written to me telling me he loves me and stuff. i havent seen him for 2 years and last time it was awful and made me suffer depression and problems ever since. I dont know wether to reply to his letter.. or just ignore it. i want to be in control and not let him think in just a kid he can push around and treat like he used to anymore, im 16. i dont know if he is truely changed and if he is worth persuing and trying to have a relaitonship with, or if he will jsut hurt me again. and in some ways i feel like if i try and it sdoesnt work out at least i know ive tried and im not missing out on anything. but i really dont want to be hurt again.
i ust dont know what to do and obviously no1 can tell me but it would help to know what u would do if u were in my situation.
thanks x
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Edited by Mia_Magic at Oct 4, 2009 11:32 AM IST
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Laugh your Heart out
Dance in The rain
Cherish the Moment
Ignore the Pain
Live Laugh Love
Life is Too short
To be Living with Regrets
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