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NEED ADVICE! PLEASE REPLY!

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Last Post Aug 11, 2008 8:13 PM by: Hersheybaby01
offline Hersheybaby01
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From: Alabama
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Re: NEED ADVICE! PLEASE REPLY!

Aug 11, 2008 8:13 PM

Well, I'm not really worried about him and his mom. I think it is better between them now. But he does treat her like his mom because his daddy is in jail (possesion of drugs), and don't judge Kyle for what his daddy done. But his mom died when him and his younger brother were pretty young.......well I'm guessing he was about 12 or so. So I guess she has been there since then so thats why.

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offline molly15
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Re: NEED ADVICE! PLEASE REPLY!

Aug 11, 2008 1:15 PM

well as he calms down try to find out more about what happened.

keep in mind that his step mom is not his REAL mom. and although he may have to respect her, he doesn't have to... well its kind of hard to explain, but he doesn't have to treat her as his mother. more like his dads wife.

remind him that in year he can leave all that behind.

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offline Hersheybaby01
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From: Alabama
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Re: NEED ADVICE! PLEASE REPLY!

Aug 11, 2008 5:38 AM

Yeah I know! (about the approving of Kyle) I love him to death! And unfortantaly a lot of girls like him so I do a lot of getting mad at other girls at school, but its like he don't even notice the other girls, so yeah.......... only problem now is, is his stepmom. They been fighting a lot lately and he called me yersterdat morning crying saying thet he wasnt going to make it to church but he would come that night, and he told me that he'll tell me about it then. Well, he didn't tell me the whole story he only told me that him and his stepmom had a fight, he was still upset. So I didn't push him into telling me the whole thing. He's 18 (still in school, he's a senior this year) which means he can move out but he wants to wait till he finsishes school which will be this December. But I just feel so bad for him. because he has never called me crying over ANYTHING!

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offline molly15
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Re: NEED ADVICE! PLEASE REPLY!

Aug 10, 2008 8:07 AM

awh! thats so sweet!
im glad he's so understanding.

thats what i was going to say actually. get married after high school and then wait on the kids till after college.

:)

i approve of this kyle! lol

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offline dasovic 4
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Aug 8, 2008 5:37 AM

you should go to college and get a education then get a job
you stil can get married but you have time to have kids you need to have some fun too

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offline Hersheybaby01
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From: Alabama
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Aug 8, 2008 5:30 AM

Thanks but I talked to Kyle last night and he told me that we can get married still right after I graduate. He also told me that we can wait the 4 years I have to go to college to have kids. I mean he loves kids as much as I do but he wants me to go to college like I wanted to. He told me that we are going to move to Mobile when I start college because thats where it is. But.......yeah I think thats basically it.

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offline iluvkovu4eva
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Aug 7, 2008 8:03 PM

Well i am going to give you my opinion. I dont think that you should have kids young or get married so young. Live your life go to college and get an education and get a good job. You have al the time in the world to have kids i mean within reason. Why rush into something. Yes you might love him but love can wait too. I think that you should make sure that it is what you want and not what anyone else wants. I think you should enjoy your young life because you only get it once. I hope i helped some.

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offline Hersheybaby01
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From: Alabama
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NEED ADVICE! PLEASE REPLY!

Aug 7, 2008 7:45 PM

Ok 1st of all I don't know if this goes in this subject or not but I don't guess it matters too much. Well, me and Kyle (my boyfriend) love each other very much, he's 18 and I'm 15. My family really likes him especially my dad. He treats me like every girl wants to be treated. He's everything I want. He promised to marry me in 2 and a half years, when I graduate. Well, for a while now I've been wanting to be a neonatal doctor (specializes in newborn babies). But, now I'm having second thoughts........I always wanted to be married and have twins and that's another thing perfect about Kyle...twins run in his family and this is his generation to have twins. I can't go to college, have a job, and take care of my husband and kids. I think I want to be a stay at home mom instead, like my mom. Kyle works, he welds, like my dad and if my dad can pay all the bills, etc. then I figured that me and Kyle can do it too. I think my parents know about my decision even though I haven't told them my plans yet. So what should I do? And what should I tell my parents? PLEASE REPLY!

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