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ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

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Last Post Jan 20, 2009 8:20 AM by: Mia_Magic
offline Mia_Magic
Posts: 408
From: England
Registered: 9/21/06

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 20, 2009 8:20 AM

Hi hun,
I am really shocked by your story, in england u would not be where u r. THe police wouldnt just by pass u saying ur a liar and u would have social services or the police looking after you. What is happening must be horrible and I hope you get courage to tell someone, cos u really need to.
I am struggling with abuse from the past and it is so painful to deal with, the pain never goes but once it is finally over it slowly starts to get easier. I never have felt so relieved than when he finally was gone. I can understand ur fear in telling someone and it must be hard cos in the past people havent believed u. But someone out there will and does and there is help u can get. please do it for yourself and ur siblings. PLEASE!!!
I havent read all ur posts cos it was so long and i dont have much time but reli wanted to reply so sorry if ive missed something.
I am still very confused as to why the police dealt with you the way they did and the hospitaal and y ur schol havent noticed anythign but plelase dont give up and keep searching for help
we r here 4 u hun and good luck x

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offline fitchlove95
Posts: 1,235
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Registered: 5/9/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 19, 2009 10:41 AM

yep so how are things going for u now

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offline aBuSeD
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Registered: 12/31/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 12, 2009 5:35 PM

yea. its just hard, ya kno?

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what do you do when the people you should be able to trust... you cant?

standing on the rooftops, everybody scream your heart out
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Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 12, 2009 5:33 PM
<3
Thats good, im happy for you.
offline aBuSeD
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Registered: 12/31/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 12, 2009 5:31 PM

i was close.

im doing ok. we all are. its hard 4 all of us 2 talk about it with ppl we hav 2 actually SAY it 2 after keeping it quiet 4 so long. i think the others also dnt entirely trust my bfs parents yet. cept isa. but shes 2, so........ it doesnt rly count. she cant talk about it NYWAY, so its kinda a moot point. but we're all getting enough 2 eat now, which is a MAJOR plus. i kno that none of us hav had a real meal in a long time, but it was actually kinda funny 2 watch them @ dinner wen we got there

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Edited by aBuSeD at 01/12/2009 3:32 PM PST

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what do you do when the people you should be able to trust... you cant?

standing on the rooftops, everybody scream your heart out
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Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 12, 2009 5:23 PM
Lol, three actually, but still.
message me :]
i'd love to catch up and see how your doing =]
offline aBuSeD
Posts: 88
Registered: 12/31/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 12, 2009 5:22 PM

i am impressedd wit u guys who r reading the WHOLE thing. its wat, 10 pgs long?

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what do you do when the people you should be able to trust... you cant?

standing on the rooftops, everybody scream your heart out
offline aBuSeD
Posts: 88
Registered: 12/31/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 11, 2009 1:03 PM

my parents havent cn me since i told my bfs parents. they hav no idea where i am. (i luv her sig 2). soccerdrl95: y my da wuld get mad about wat? & my mom (well, technically shes my stepmom & the others r my step-sibs) weeeelllllll, she waz, uh, helping

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what do you do when the people you should be able to trust... you cant?

standing on the rooftops, everybody scream your heart out
offline soccergrl95
Posts: 90
From: ALASKA BABY!!!!!
Registered: 10/22/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 10, 2009 12:19 AM

omg girlsrock12 i absolutely luv your signature!!!!!!!!!!! sry that is totally off the point... back 2 u aBusED.... i cant remember if i said but i am super duper happy 4 u!!!!! i was reading it and i like started crying... and then i finished reading and was so excited!!!!!!! so i hav a friend i told about this(i hope u dont mind) and she is wondering why your dad would get mad... if thats not too personal... and where was your mom in all of this? at first i thought she wasabusing u 2... but now im not sure. k u definately dont need to answer any of these if u feel pressured or watever but congrats on telling your bf's parents!!!!

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offline soccergrl95
Posts: 90
From: ALASKA BABY!!!!!
Registered: 10/22/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 9, 2009 8:44 PM

so im confuzzled. u r staying at your bfs house right? and your siblings 2? how long has it been since u told them?

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offline OompaLoompa
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Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 9, 2009 2:56 PM

your parents haven't hit you since you told your boyfriends parents right???

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offline aBuSeD
Posts: 88
Registered: 12/31/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 9, 2009 1:48 PM

theyre trying 2 figure out WAT 2 do. i think theyre gnna go 2 the police & hope theyll listen 2 them

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what do you do when the people you should be able to trust... you cant?

standing on the rooftops, everybody scream your heart out
offline fitchlove95
Posts: 1,235
From: in ur dreams ♥
Registered: 5/9/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 8, 2009 7:17 PM

so aBuSeD,
what are your bfs parents going to do?
how are ya?

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the names daniela.♥
i love my friends
left the periodless club 12/19/07
rip 3.14.08 , 12.21.08 <3
i have a twin, amanda!
offline calliejonas
Posts: 42
From: Do you believe anyone can be BEAUTIFUL? 'Cause I wish people can see me like that. If they can. I don't have to coveer myself anymore. Behind make-up.
Registered: 1/7/09

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 8, 2009 7:15 PM

I know what its like.
Except, it wasn't my parents.

I tried picking up and leaving, but it only mad him madder,
Then I finally had the courage, and left.
No one really knows about it. I'm very private when it comes to my friends. I hide all the stuff that's going on in my life.

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over the edge;
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offline aBuSeD
Posts: 88
Registered: 12/31/08

Re: ABUSIVE PARENTS!!! HELP!!

Jan 8, 2009 2:24 PM

thk u

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what do you do when the people you should be able to trust... you cant?

standing on the rooftops, everybody scream your heart out
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