Is it wrong to not feel "in love"?

its nothing wrong with that, but maybe there is something missing, there shoulnd't just be physical love but emotional love involved and if you two slept together there should be more than just a physical enjoyment, to me it kinda just feel like you enjoy his company and he enjoy yours kinda like a friendship, which there is turely nothing wrong with that,maybe later you two would progress throughout your feelings for each other so you don't neccesarly have to love him ,just wait for that moment.

Ack, see, this is what I was talking about that bugs me.

It wasn't for physical enjoyment, it was a momentary lack of judgment. Thought I was ready, most definitely wasn't, hence why I'm so sure I don't love him.

I mean, I love him as a person. I like him as my boyfriend. It's more than a friendship, I know that much.

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(11/22/08. For now, for always, forever.)

its nothing wrong with that, but maybe there is something missing, there shoulnd't just be physical love but emotional love involved and if you two slept together there should be more than just a physical enjoyment, to me it kinda just feel like you enjoy his company and he enjoy yours kinda like a friendship, which there is turely nothing wrong with that,maybe later you two would progress throughout your feelings for each other so you don't neccesarly have to love him ,just wait for that moment.

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Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size But when I start to tell them, They think I'm telling lies. I say, It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips,
The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I'm a woman
Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, I say,
It's the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me.

lol they're probably biased and have boyfriends they're obsessed with and think they're gonna get married one day xP

ugh that reminds me of this guy. he's a total manwh0re and takes advantage of girls. and he does that thing a lot where you say you're in love, then break up a few weeks later. there's this one girl he's going out with now, and he posted this facebook survey about her saying that he plans to go out with her forever and is madly in love with her and never wants another girlfriend again. and yet he's said that about countless other girls.

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Edited by a person at Aug 8, 2009 6:15 PM EDT

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No I dont think its wrong. I think that you are lucky that you are so in touch with your feelings. Maybe he is the one and it just hasnt happened yet. I bet you will know for sure when it does happen. Too many girls do fall in love in 40 seconds!

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Thats fine, you're only 16 and its your first relationship like you said, you may even love him, you just don't know it yet x

i dont think its weird
youre honest and mature enough to admit that youre not in love which is a million times better than girls who fall in love after 40 seconds
if you enjoy each others company and you really find him attractive, i dont see why it couldnt turn into love someday
but i admire that you arent trying to fool yourself into "loving" him

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My name is Katie.
I love Joseph.
Kenneth Wayne Savage is my guardian angel.

I've been going out with this boy since November. He is absolutely incredible. He's amazing. He makes my heart float.

But I don't love him. I like him. I like him a whole lot.

In the day and age where absolutely everyone says that they're in love with a boy 40 seconds after meeting them, I was told it's weird that we don't tell each other "I love you".

I mean, I'm 16. This is my first real relationship. I have no basis to stand love on. We've slept together, and it wasn't out of love I don't think.

It's not that we don't love each other. I mean, we... enjoy each other. It's more than platonic and less than love. Why is that so weird?

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It’s a big, bright, beautiful world, with happiness all around. It’s peaches and cream and every dream comes true.
It’s a big, bright, beautiful world, with possibilities everywhere. And just around the bend there’s a friend or two.

But not for you.

People hate the things they cannot understand.

(11/22/08. For now, for always, forever.)