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I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

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Last Post Sep 30, 2008 7:24 PM by: uagurl19
offline uagurl19
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Registered: 9/29/08

Re: I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 30, 2008 7:24 PM

I am sure that if you put up a good argument (like a discussion, NOT a yelling back and forth convention LOL) they will let you have one, there will prob be some strict rules but its not like they can hold you back forever! GOOD LUCK

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Re: I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 30, 2008 3:27 PM
yeah agreed. just talk to your parents make some agreements and compimises. or you could just me like me and wait a nether year :P you dont need the experiance. i have only had one serious relation ship and i am still in it.

all the other "Crushes" were obviously not intended to be...if the guy truly liked you the no bf rule would not apply.

dont jump into a relation ship beacuse you want to.... find a boy you like. get to know him and become the closest of friends and then just keep it that way till you can date.

(i am 16 and the girl i am with is 14 please dont judge. i love this girl to death 8 months and still going but she cant date. so i still feel the same twords her. the dateing thing does not matter. ps she can date when she is 15...so you should be ok. just talk to your parents)
offline emily66
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From: canada
Registered: 8/19/08

Re: I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 30, 2008 3:14 PM
actually, not telling your parents is a bad idea.
cause, they're bound to find out, and then get mad that you didnt tell them, and they probably wont trust you for a while.
if you really want to date someone, like, if you have someone in mind, and think that he might ask you out or on a date or something, just sit down with your parents ( or just one of them, whichever seems easier ), and explain that you like him, and that you really want to go out with him. then, ask their reasons for saying no, and actually listen to them. try to compromise. tell them that your almost 15, and your completely mature enough for a relationship. set a curfew that your both good with, and even let them drive you to a movie or whatever if you have to! thats what i did with my mom. it took some getting used to for her, but shes totally okay with it now!
hope i helped! =]
offline ObamaBaby08
Posts: 56
From: Where CHANGE CAME FROM!!!
Registered: 9/27/08

Re: I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 28, 2008 11:56 AM

BUMP

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offline klynn2
Posts: 205
From: Ohio
Registered: 9/27/08

Re: I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 28, 2008 11:42 AM
ok that reminds me of when i got my first boyfriend. i kept it to myself for like 2 weeks and then i told my oarents and they where really supportive about it
offline sweetne1s
Posts: 17
From: usa
Registered: 9/26/08

Re: I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 28, 2008 11:38 AM
yes i agree!
offline Pomeganate_Luvr
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Re: I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 28, 2008 11:35 AM

its actually really simple

dont... tell..... ur.... parents

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offline sexi_lady13*
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I want to try it! ( about a bf, not sex)

Sep 28, 2008 11:29 AM

I'm 14 going on 15, and my parents won't let me have a bf. I really want one because I've let way too many crushes go by w/o doing anything about it! I've also had to turn down guys because of the no bf policy. I want to change that! I just want to have that experience, at least once. Does anyone know how I can convince my parents to let me have on?

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