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Last Post Oct 12, 2009 3:41 PM by: ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: ummm...

Oct 12, 2009 3:41 PM

proudtexasgirl- Agreed.

But in the event that you do stay together and don't end up preggers, use protection. Haha.

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offline proudtexasgirl
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Oct 12, 2009 3:36 PM

And don't be too upset if yall break up.
Or get pregnant.
No offense.

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Edited by proudtexasgirl at Oct 12, 2009 3:37 PM CDT

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offline teamJakeward
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Oct 12, 2009 3:33 PM
I know(:
we'll use protection and be careful.
online ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Oct 12, 2009 3:30 PM

Sounds like you had a good time. Just in the future be sure to stay protected.

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offline teamJakeward
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Oct 12, 2009 3:20 PM
okay so guys:/
i thought i'd just tell you.
i did go ahead and do it.
and i dont regret it.
Saturday has to be the best night of my life so far<3
it was amazing.

he has being so comforting,
we was just lying there cuddling up
and he said
" we dont have to do nothing you know, i love you"
and kissed me genly on my lips.

i told him i was just nervous, and he was too.
his heart was beating so so so fast.
it was unbelieveable.

but yeah anyways, i done it, and its what i wanted.
I love him.
offline adorkablevivix3
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Oct 9, 2009 11:06 PM

to be honest, 14 is WAY too young to lose your virginity.

sex requires a LOT of trust. you guys have only been together for THREE months. do you feel like you really know him? do you REALLY trust him?

you can only lose your virginity once. REMEMBER THAT.

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offline teamJakeward
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Oct 9, 2009 3:14 PM
hmmm, i know.
and i am thinking about everything that this,
all i keep saying to my self is ''What if this happens'', "what if that happens".

I really am thinking hard before i make a decision.
And i'm thinking what i would do if i got pregnant.
Because the one thing i said i would never do, is get an abortion.
Because it's a matter of life or death really.
If my mum had an abortion, i wouldnt be here.
And if my boyfriends mum had an abortion, i would never of knew him. That's just the way i think :P

and i've also heard that people get depressed if they have an abortion, and effects them from having children in later life.
:/
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Oct 8, 2009 10:30 PM

Its up to you but your only 14, thats just very young. Personally if i was you i would wait since you and your boyfriend have only been together for 3 months.

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offline Erin=n
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Oct 8, 2009 10:15 PM
I love it:
"Well do what you want, it's your decision. "

So, who's gonna pay the ob/gyn/surgeon/abortionclinic if it doesn't end up being the awesome relationship thing you expect?
offline Bre-Rox14
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Oct 8, 2009 10:02 PM

Well do what you want, it's your decision.
But honestly I think 14 is way too young, and you've only been with him for 3 months (very hypocritical for me to say, but true). I don't think you guys are old enough for that kind of commitment, but then again I don't know you personally so I can't really say how mature you's are.

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offline Erin=n
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Oct 8, 2009 9:48 PM
Well, what the hey ?

You're ENTITLED to have everything turn out just the way you want, right? If it doesn't, then it must be someone elses' fault.

So just do what you wanna do.
offline babycakes.
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Oct 8, 2009 8:31 PM

I think it's up to you. If you think your ready, go for it. But, you should also think about the bad things it could do to your relationship as well. It could bring you closer together, but it could also screw things up. Just think of everything that could happen before you make your final decision.

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offline Joe_1993
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Oct 8, 2009 8:16 PM
Just becaus eyour friends are doesnt mean you have to and i also think 14 is wayyyyy to young and i am not trying to be mean but barely anyone will be married to the guy or girl they were dating at 14..sorry but i dont think its gonna happen but on sex deal i say you shouldnt do it!
offline flipflopcutie27
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Oct 8, 2009 5:46 PM

well, it's completely up to you of course, but 14 to me seems young. just because you love someone doesn't mean you are physically and mentally ready to have sex. and if you do it and then realize you weren't, things could go south in your relationship.
just something to consder. you seem to have the other stuff covered

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offline teamJakeward
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Oct 8, 2009 4:57 PM
oh and BTW,
I am thinking about the consequences:')
just making it clear:P
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