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Re: Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 16, 2009 4:51 PM
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just talk to him.if u dont its all gonna bulid up inside and he ll never know.i have big problums too right now not like urs but right now i cant even call my boy friend.i d give anything to though.i think u should b with the person who will do anything for u and will just be soooo happy when they see u.thats a good relashonship.
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x.Bekki.x
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Re: Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 16, 2009 1:38 AM
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Okay ty everyone x
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Bby.Haz3l
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Re: Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 15, 2009 4:29 PM
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well ignoring him is not going to solve anything
two wrongs dont make a right
just txt back and b like whats been up wit u lately or sumtihng related to how he has been acting toward you./ .and just wait and see how things go and if ur bf now still acts that way and if u still really do have feelings for luke then go from there
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Re: Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 15, 2009 3:50 PM
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Thanks for your help guys...
So i spoke to my boyfriend earlier and i explained that i wasn't happy at the way he was being with me today and he said he was sorry but he was just tired...and i said that being tired wasn't really an excuse for being that way and then he said he was just "tired of everything"...I'm really not understanding him atm but he doesn't realize how upset i really am but he's just too dumb to care about tehe way I'm feeling, It's almost like he just wants me to give him sympathy and that I'm the one in the wrong
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Re: Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 15, 2009 2:11 PM
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Well the only problem with you completely ignoring him is boys are clueless. ha. He's not going to know what's wrong if you don't talk to him about it, and things will never be fixed it you don't talk it out and explain to him that he's hurting your feelings. He probably doesn't even realize that he's "ignoring" you. IM him back and talk to him. Neither of you really have anything to apologize for; you didn't do anything wrong, and he's probably not trying to ignore you. Make it clear to him that you're kind of upset, and if he asks if you are okay, don't just say "yea, I'm fine" or something like that; talk to him and explain to him. Don't get mad - that won't fix anything.
If you try and talk things out with your boyfriend and things don't get any better, then I think you should maybe consider getting back with Luke. Don't just dump your boyfriend though because you want to try things with Luke again. I mean, you know your boyfriend likes you and cares about; you haven't even talked to Luke in months and you don't know how he feels about you. Don't risk losing something good for someone you have no idea about.
Hope I helped. (:
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Re: Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 15, 2009 2:05 PM
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You should reply and tell him how you feel about everything. Share your side of the story and see what he has to say about it. And about the other boy, I don't know. Sorry, I'm sure that doesn't help but it's kinda confusing. It could just be your brain and wanting to get back at him or maybe you really are having true feelings for him. All in all... See how things go with your boyfriend and go from there! Good luck.
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Re: Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 15, 2009 12:57 PM
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Well, if he IMed you, reply. That's what you wanted in the first place, was to talk to him. So, just say hey. Keep things short. And if he asks whats wrong, tell him your not happy with him
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Ugh, kinda confusing but I have two problems...
Jul 15, 2009 12:54 PM
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Okay, please don't just read and ignore cos I could really use someones help here... 1) I saw my boyfriend today at school and it was the first time we had seen each other for almost a week and a half because I had been away and I was hoping everything would be great between us because we hadn't seen each other in a while but he seemed really off with me, I tried talking to him at lunch but he just didn't seem interested and it was almost like he didn't want to talk to me and he hasn't texted me since school and we ALWAYS text if we're not with each other and I know he has credit on his phone so that's not the reason why he's not texting...He's really kinda annoyed me and I dont want to be the first one to text because I want him to understand that I'm not happy with him but i don't think it will seem to get through to him 2) Also, my mom was talking to me earlier because she went to a funeral today and she was saying about how she saw one of my friends moms (he's called Luke btw) and she got talking about how his mom had been talking about me and stuff and I used to be kinda close to Luke but we kinda lost contact in around February and we havent really been in touch since...and since my mom mentioned him, all of these feelings have suddenly come flooding back about him and I remember how much i really used to love him and how special he made me feel when I was with him...idk if these feelings are coming back just because of the situation with my boyfriend atm and maybe its my mind playing tricks on me and wanting to get back at my boyfriend so I'm kinda like yeahh and idk what to do  Uh oh, since ive just written this my boyfriend has just IMed me and said "hello" i dont want to reply cos i want him to know im in a mood and i dont want to just carry on, i want to talk to him about how he's made me feel but idk what to say or anything Please reply, ciao x -- 07/18/2009 ♥ iloveyou! |
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