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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 6:41 PM
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totally not my ex boyfriend, he was part of my group, but i never really talked to him one on one before we dated. and one day he came up to me and said hey i think your pretty. will you be my girlfriend? i didnt find it weird. i was like whoa. he has the courage to come to me in front of all our friends and say that. thats admirable =) confidence is sexy. be outgoing =D
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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 6:40 PM
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ugh i messed up this post. look above this lol ^ -- Edited by sexycani at 11/19/2008 4:42 PM PST
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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 4:59 PM
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cool, i just was curious. 'preciate the help -- "It was all a dream" reebok3 = Andrew from Atlanta, GA
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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 4:07 PM
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no i dont think itd b weird... maybe start out slow... like short conversations... dont rush into these huge conversations and stuff... that might freak her out but otherwise it shud b fine -- proud social phobe- one who excessively fears embarrassment in social situations I'd like to make myself believe... that planet earth turns slowly... ~owl city the only way to fix a broken heart is for someone else to come along and put it back together
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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 3:51 PM
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cool, none of u would find that wierd coming from someone in ur class that u never spoke to before? if u put urself in that situation. appreciate the advice, i know how to spark up convos or what to say no problem, i was just curious if it would be wierd since it was the 1st time i had to do it with someone who doesnt know me or seen me before -- "It was all a dream" reebok3 = Andrew from Atlanta, GA
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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 3:39 PM
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if u have any clasees w her u can ask her to borrow notes and then start talking about the class or just compliment her or something... girls like that haha -- proud social phobe- one who excessively fears embarrassment in social situations I'd like to make myself believe... that planet earth turns slowly... ~owl city the only way to fix a broken heart is for someone else to come along and put it back together
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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 3:35 PM
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thing is tho, its someone in school. so i kno she sees me in the halls bc ive seen her before, and its not like im even planning on dating her at all, but i do find her attractive and just wanna talk to her. its no big deal, im gonna do when the best oppurtunity arises, but i was jst thinkin gabout that. in school if ive never talked to someone would a girl find that a little strange? hmmm besides some random things, what the best way to start a convo up with a girl, now that u girls kinda know the situation. -- "It was all a dream" reebok3 = Andrew from Atlanta, GA
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Re: would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 3:26 PM
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well, it kind of depends on the situation. if theyve like seen you walk around school before it's probably okay. but if it's at like...i dunno. i'll use the beach as an example. if you were at the beach and you started talking to some random girl it could pretty much go 2 ways. 1. she'll be really nice and talk to you 2. she'll think youre really weird and kind of give you a weird look and maybe walk away. i've had random people walk up to me and start like a conversation. it's not like youre gonna be like "hey, you wanna go out?" as soon as they meet you. so you pretty much have a 50/50 chance. at least in my town, most girls wouldn't find it that weird. and if they do, chances are you'll never see them again.
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would u find it wierd if a random boy went up to u? whats the best way?
Nov 19, 2008 3:21 PM
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whats up. i just have a quick question, i know going up to people u find attractive is good to do when u have something good to say about the situation (like i say in my advice) my question is this though, when i do this, usually the person knows me a little bit, or has atleast seen me if a random boy went up to u would u find it strange? probably right? if so, what the best way u think a boy should approach a girl he has never spoken to before. i know i say in my advice something about whats going on around u, but if that person has never seen u before whats a goodway to get a convo going, i want a girls point of view because its kind of diff when a girl does it to a guy, then when a random guy does it to a girl....in my opinion. just curious thanks...this is all ur opinion. -- "It was all a dream" reebok3 = Andrew from Atlanta, GA
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