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I need to vent

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Last Post Nov 12, 2009 6:06 PM by: xwatevx45
offline xwatevx45
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From: New Jersey
Registered: 10/31/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 12, 2009 6:06 PM
I guess :/
offline ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: I need to vent

Nov 11, 2009 7:16 AM

If you're not sure you like your boyfriend enough, why are you with him? You should've gotten to know him first.

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offline xwatevx45
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From: New Jersey
Registered: 10/31/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 11, 2009 5:58 AM
The thing is , im not sure I like my boyfriend enough to tell him about it. I am trying to get to know him better. I want to find out my feelings for him
offline taylor_sunshine
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Registered: 11/10/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 10, 2009 4:34 PM
Wow all i have to tell you or all i can really tell you is high school is a BITCH!!! Your always going to be pressured to do things like that and sometimes you cant help what happens...just put it this way i 'm a senior in high school its not a joke you have to watch yourself its not your fault at all what happend to you. Like you said if you didnt he would have forced you since he was strongeer and bigger. The advice i can give you is tell your boyfriend honestly if he finds out from another person it can be bad. If you really like this guy do whats best yalls relationship and tell him. And for your grandmother and mother when your ready to tell them...tell them better to hear it from you than sombody else. You dont have to listent o mee at all i dont even expect you to. All i know is ive been through this and its not the end.

Good luck to you, Taylor
offline xwatevx45
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From: New Jersey
Registered: 10/31/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 10, 2009 3:17 PM
No im def. not preg. I got my period twice last month. I think my cycle was irregular cause it was my first time. But if im pregnant it must be a fallopian tube pregnancy.
offline OFcheerleader14
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Re: I need to vent

Nov 8, 2009 4:45 PM

wel, im glad things r working out. jst think b4 u do it next time.

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offline Lovinlife311
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From: new york
Registered: 10/12/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 8, 2009 1:38 PM

ur not preg r u?

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offline xwatevx45
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From: New Jersey
Registered: 10/31/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 6, 2009 7:29 AM
My school is a vocational school and we are both in law and public safety so it might stick for quite awhile. He actually just texted me last night and some of it was worked out. I made friends with a few of the people giving me problems and it all seems to be going smoothly. Just wish I could go back and change what happened.
offline bootcut
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Registered: 11/1/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 5, 2009 5:17 PM
Well if he had done it without you saying yes that would have been rape.

But i'm sure it isn;t as big a deal as you think it is. In high school (this is bad) a lot of people are having sex. Many with different guys each week. So hearing about one person doing it with anothe person isn't really a OMG kind of thing. Especially if you go to a big high school, it will be old news soon.

I mean my hihg school is private, so it's all the rich kids. And of couse there when you hear about it it's an OMG moment. But I went to a large public high school for a while my freshman year and you were hering things all the time about who did it with who.
offline xwatevx45
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From: New Jersey
Registered: 10/31/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 5, 2009 4:38 PM
Well him and the bus driver are fairly close, shes like a kid, and he texted it to her after it happened, and i think she was telling a girl on my bus and people over heard. yes I know I shouldnt have done it, I realize that. It's kind of hard to ignore when I see him every day. :/
offline ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: I need to vent

Nov 1, 2009 5:58 PM

I can understand telling friends, but the bus driver?
Edit:
And skinnyjeans, my guess is that while he was "telling the bus driver" everyone else was eavsedropping(spelling?)

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Edited by ♥iWillAlways♥You at Nov 1, 2009 5:59 PM CST

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offline skinnyjeans.
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Re: I need to vent

Nov 1, 2009 5:57 PM

i was thinking the same thing! such a random person to tell. and did the bus driver tell other people on the bus? or how did everyone else find out.

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offline bollywoodluvr227
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Re: I need to vent

Nov 1, 2009 5:57 PM

Oooh,that is a good question.

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offline ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: I need to vent

Nov 1, 2009 5:56 PM

I have a question.

Why did the guy tell the bus driver?

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offline bollywoodluvr227
Posts: 254
From: Pakistan
Registered: 9/24/09

Re: I need to vent

Nov 1, 2009 5:45 PM

Okay first of all,you shouldn't have had sex at all,and theres really nothing you can do about it other than ignore it.

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The future Mrs.Vatsal Seth (or Ranbir Kapoor.Whoever I hook up with first).
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.`·.¸.·´
.¸.· ´¸.·´¨) ¸.·*¨)
.(¸.·´ (¸.·´ .·´ ¸¸.·
A lot of people whine about saving yourself till marriage.Maybe they should stop thinking about when and in it's place who.

you say rock? i say alternative
you say hollister? i say target
you say i'm typical? i say so what
95% of teens jugde others because of the things they like/dislike
copy and paste this in your signature
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