I need some help from you girls. if you dont mind

3 little questions! great! u help us nonstop its th least we could do fr u!

fr getting th girl 2 stop bothering u, definitely do not get mad at her. tht wil make her upset and giv u a bad rep. wen ur calm and shes alone (not with friends, itll b awkward in front of thm) gently tell her u r not interested. i would rather hav a boy tell me he doesnt like me than get really mad because i keep flirting or watevr.

2 frget about a relationship, jst realized tht if it failed, it failed and im srry. u will eventually find th right girl.

and 2 go forward w/ ur new relationship, love her like u hav never had a heartbreak. like u dnt kno wat a heartbreak is. pretend u r starting fresh and u will hav a very strong 1. wat most ppls probs r, is they never let go of their past relationships and they cnt live life 2 th fullest. i understand u r upset about a failed relatioship, but u cnt let tht keep u from having a great new 1! so good luck, hav fun and dream big!

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1) Just simply say, "I'm sorry, I'm not interested right now." And if she asks why, (and you feel the need to give her reason.) just say you just got out of a long relationship and you just need to be single for a while.

2) The only way to forget about a past relationship, is to get with someone new. I know it's hard, but sometimes that's just what ya gotta do. You could also cut all communication with this girl. I know that if I continue talking to a boy after we break up, I still wanna be with him and just wanna be dating him still if that makes sense.

3) Just do it. Don't be afraid. So it may fail, but as the saying goes: "don't cry because it ended, smile because it happened" Just be happy that you got to get to know this person and you got to be able to like be with them, ya know?

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1. So how would i tell a girl i dont like her and to stop talking to be with out her totaly freaking and hateing my guts?

2. Also, how do you forget about a past relationship

3.and, how would you move forward in a new relationship if your afraid that it will all fail again?

1.well i would say just tell her how you feel. she'll probably be pretty upset but will appreciate your honesty in the long run.
2. it's not usually good to forget but instead move on. just remember why your relationship failed and that it wasn't meant to be. remember both the good times and the bad, and think about future relationships.
3. dont think about it failing. if you're always worried about your past relationships you might miss out on great times in your new relationship

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-you are annoyed with the the gs drama
- promise not to meaningly take part in drama
-will tell girls when the smartest thing is to drop it.

well i guess no one has any answers for the other questions. :-\ but thank you for answering the ones you did.

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TO LET A GIRL DOWN WITHOUT HER HATEING U IS JUST TO TELL HER HOW U FEEL FIRST AND THEN TELL HER THAT I CANT BE WITH U ANYMORE OR JUST TELL HER WHY U CANT STAY WITH HER AND EXPLAN WHY U DONT WANT TO BE WITH HER BUT TAKE IT STEP BY STEP CAUSE IF U DONT U MIGHT GET HIT IN THE FACE OR SOME WERE ELSE TRUST ME I HAVE SEEN IT MANY OF TIMES BUT THATS MY ADVICE BUT U DO MIGHT WANT TO TAKE IT EASY CAUSE SHE WILL HIT U IN THE FACE SO HARD U WANT EVEN BE ABLE TO THINK NO LIE

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So how would i tell a girl i dont like her and to stop talking to be with out her totaly freaking and hating my guts?
You dont have to acually tell her, just kind of remove your self. And if you plan on not talking to her at all, it shouldnt really matter if she completely reaking hates your guts. But be sure, if there was any flirting involved, stop it. She'l get it. And when she tries to start flirting, just dont return the love! It is super awkwared hearing " I dont like you like that." or my favorite, " I just want to be friends" Us girls are good with subbtle hints.

well tell her u need some peace and that were gonna break up and i will think about getting back with u .

idk dont ask me but an idea someone did it in my school but never got back with her

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