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is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

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Last Post Nov 7, 2009 12:06 PM by: OFcheerleader14
offline OFcheerleader14
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Nov 7, 2009 12:06 PM

i promise i will pray fr u and ur family! and tht was really inconsiderate of ur bf!

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offline charlieblissborrow
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Nov 6, 2009 7:33 PM

that is terrible! i feel soooo bad for you. eventually things will cool down, i will pray for your dad to make it thru the challenge ahead , and i wish you and your family best of luck:)

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offline jojocutie101
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Nov 6, 2009 3:36 PM

that is inconsiderate of your boyfriend...couldnt he wait like 42 hours?????? jeez he sounds like a ----

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offline cutie445
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Nov 6, 2009 3:30 PM
o my gosh that is sooooooooooooooo sad:_|
My grandpa passed away recently and I know exactly how you feel. Its like every little thing just gets u upset, I cant imagine dealing with a big thing like that at this time.:(


Good luck to ur dad and u with ur boyfriend!!!
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Nov 6, 2009 3:04 PM
Skinnyjeans, i think she might be saying it was a little inconciderate of him to break up with her RIGHT after she found out this really sad news. I dont think anyone would break up with somone because there parent has cancer either.
offline trumpetgirl44
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Nov 5, 2009 8:36 PM
it's ok, i know exactly how you feel. my dad just had his bladder and prostate removed because of cancer, and my boyfriend of 11 months broke up with me trough a text message. he said he didn't love me anymore... i was devastated. i still am and it's only been a few days. :'(
offline adorkablevivix3
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 11:37 PM

oh my goodness, i`m so sorry to hear that your dad has cancer. <3

and did he give you a reason why he broke up with you?
i know you guys were fighting, but could you guys resolve these issues?

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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 4:27 PM
awww im soooo sorry but maybe he was already planning to break up with you. and he probly didnt want to do it while u told him oyur dad has cancer. if he nice he wont ell people but watch your back if hes not so nice.
offline bribrina
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From: las veags, nevada
Registered: 10/17/09

Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 3:52 PM
hey
offline skinnyjeans.
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a guy could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 2:05 PM

none of this is really making any sense.
your dad having cancer has nothing to do with your boyfriend and yours relationship.

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offline For_the_Love_of_the_Game
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a guy could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 2:03 PM

earlier this week he was avoiding me and i asked him why and he said he was afraid that iiii was going to break up with him. and he told me he thinks it could work but he can't do this right now. so he can't deal with me being like depressed? idunno we're "taking a break". i'm not saying he couldn't break up with me, but he could have waited seriously like 2 days til i got over the shock of the news of my dad having cancer!

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offline skinnyjeans.
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Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 1:55 PM

how do you even know that that is why he broke up with you.
i seriously doubt someone would break up with someone else just because their parent had cancer.

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offline Ckenzi
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Registered: 10/15/09

Re: is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 1:47 PM
Aww!! *hugs*
Sorry about your dad!!! But...um, maybe he was going to break up with you anyway? Because you said you were already fighting. I can see how that would only make your situation worse, though. Hang in there!
offline For_the_Love_of_the_Game
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is this not the MEANEST thing a gut could EVER do..?

Oct 17, 2009 1:43 PM

on thursday night i found out that my dad has cancer =[ i trusted my boyfriend with this even though we've been kind of fighting lately. twenty minutes later. HE BREAKS UP WITH ME. seriously what the ;alksdjfasd;klfjh.

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