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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 17, 2008 8:11 PM
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ok so it happened today.
it was horrible. i totally knew what to do i was proud of myself thank you to all who helped me! lol but....
he is a horrible kisser. omg. lol. i feel so bad but i realized it wasnt me being inexperienced it was him sucking my face off. lmao. ugh i feel bad though i have no idea what to say cuz i dont want to kiss him again
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 16, 2008 2:43 PM
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well, my first kiss was actually pretty good :]
its was on valentines day, and it started with a peck, but for about .5 seconds was a little tounge and then we stopped. but my second time-- not so good. it was with the same guy. he invited me over to his house and we made out ON HIS BED. and it lasted for about 10 minutes and oh gawd-- afterwards i felt like a completefor some reason. on his bed?? pshh. wow. furthest ill ever go ill tell ya that. he did try to take off my pants. he put his hand on my zipper and i just took his hand and put it on his own. and i was like GO ME! oh and i didnt know it but apparently HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND that whole time and she was one of my BESTFRIENDS!!!!!! EEK! god. ill never forget that. but since then, ive had some pretty good kisses :]
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 14, 2008 8:16 PM
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 14, 2008 7:00 PM
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Just follow the guy, I mean to me it's just kind of natural. Don't worry, stay relaxed, and just kind of go with the flow.
One more thing to add, if you freak out it won't make the moment any better... so it is better to remember to stay relaxed and let him be your lead.
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 11, 2008 6:24 PM
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here are my questions:
- how the heck do you make out???? lol
- in more detail: how do you move your lips, where do your hands go, that sorta thing, mostly what do you do w/you lips
1) Really it gets easier after a couple of trys. The first one may be a little difficult and shocking, at least it was for me. Just follow the guy, TRUST ME don't try doing crazy stuff or doing the making out by yourself and leading, just follow him, do what he does.
2)Its hard to tell on the internet how to move your lips, just follow his. First it starts as a closed mouth peck, then he starts to open his mouth, follow him, open your mouth too. When he starts moving his mouth, you start too. You kind of move your lips out and have them open and then close your lips coming in. But once again follow him, don't do the closing, he'll do all the work. The tounge (if he uses it) I would wait for until he does it. Its really hard to explain this. Once he puts your tounge in your mouth, put yours in is and kind of go back in forth, gently. Its hard to explain the tounge on her. When I make out with my boyfriend I put my hands hugging around his neck or around his shoulders, or just holding his hands. He puts his hands either around my waist, butt, or just holding me.
Hope I helped a little.
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 9, 2008 6:45 PM
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so me and him are cool now and i told him a wanted to just do pecks to start off. but i reallyyyy want to kiss him again because i like him so much. can you guys give me any tips for kissing because he has mentioned making out a bit!!
here are my questions:
- how the heck do you make out???? lol
- in more detail: how do you move your lips, where do your hands go, that sorta thing, mostly what do you do w/you lips
thank you!!
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 8, 2008 10:38 PM
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I feel you. My first bf (and my first kiss) was so awkward. Feeling his slimy tounge and everything, but I told him how I wanted to be kissed, and then it became quite enjoyable -- ♥Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.♥
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 8, 2008 9:03 PM
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yeah. i reckon kissing for the first time is neva want u think it should be. i've heard so many ppl who were disappointed.
(me included). it was so wet. nah i reckon it's something u sort of learn to enjoy. try again. and if u try and keep ur mouth closed it's harder for him to put his tongue in ur mouth also i reeckon after a while u'll start enjoyin it.
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 8, 2008 8:51 PM
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well mine was bad too.
it just happned about a week ago.
i wanted it to be more special, but it wasnt
i was kinda pressured into kissing the guy and i had no clue what to do.
it fealt so weird and kinda gross.
i didnt noe when to stop, what to do, what to expect nd i fealt like ppl were watching which i didnt like.
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relax, maybe(sound gross but...) practice on ur hand or something, or if the guy is really nice tell him the truth and maybe he'll undrstand and slow down or whatever?
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!) REPLY PLEASE!!
Jun 7, 2008 7:55 PM
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the guy seems to be nice. he agreed to take it slower. next time you hang out ask him if he wants to try the kiss again. remind him to take it slow and well close your eyes and hope for the best.
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!) REPLY PLEASE!!
Jun 6, 2008 11:37 PM
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bump you guys please reply i'm dying here. i feel really gross and like i wasted my first kiss =(
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!) REPLY PLEASE!!
Jun 6, 2008 6:07 PM
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he just called me and asked if i was ok because he said i sounded weird. i said yeah and i told him to take it slower next time and tryed to explain the mouths closed thing. haha. it was very awkward but he said he was sorry for rushing it. ugh so werid. anyways, any tips for making it less weird and just kissing better???
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bumble_bee*
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 6, 2008 5:27 PM
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lol yeah i was surprised at how umm...wet it was. haha. it felt kinda gross and i didnt want to be like "hey lets just start with closed mouths" cuz that would be really weird. does it get better though? do you think i can let him know that i'm not ready to kiss w/open mouths?? lol that sounds so weird. thank you!! this makes me feel a bit better! =)
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 6, 2008 5:25 PM
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awwww im sorry, its not fun when that happens. except for me i kissed a guy that had never kissed before and it wasnt good, but i forgave him & told him i completely understood.
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Re: first kiss ugh (please read!)
Jun 6, 2008 5:18 PM
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i totally understand what your saying,
my first ( and only for that matter) was so weird i expected it to be...well just different it was kinda gross tbh feeling his tongue go in and around my mouth was soaking after eughhh lol
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