pazarmonia
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so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)
Jan 4, 2009 2:58 PM
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i have thought about the whole situation with the guy I like, and I wrote down my thoughts and I came up with 3 things. I am not sure what you call them, 3 uncertainties I guess.Here theya re:
1) He doesn't do something everyday, like making eye contact or talking to me. Sometimes he does nothing, which makes he go "well he doesn't like me." But then I started thinking about how I act towards him. And the way he acts towards me is very similar to how I act towards him. I have opportunities to talk to him or loo at him eveyday, but I don't always take them. And I guess I expected him to take all the opportunities he has and when he doesn't i get upset. So maybe he IS shy towards me after all. But he is such an extrovert I guess I expected him to be more confident towards me than I am towards him. Is a possible explanation for this is that he is shy towards me? EVEN thogh he is a very friendly person?
2) Evr since like elementary school, bascaiyll when i first met him we have had something going on. Like we always talked (although its become lesser because i start liking him more and get more nervou) and we stare at eachother and make eye contact all the time, things like that. But assuming he HAS liked me this whle time, he could have asked me out. It's been 7 years, if he was going to asak me out he would have done it by now right?
3) Or maybe he was afraid of rejection? But he recently found out I like him. He found out 2 days before break. And i don't know I guess i expected him to ask me out immediately. But he probably needed time to think about it, or he might have felt awkward around me for a couple of days. But we have been out of school for like 2 weeks, so he has had plently of time to get over it. But i still doubt anything will happen.
So, i just posted this for some thoughts. Those are the main 3 things that are bothering me.
Thanks
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