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so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

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Last Post Jan 5, 2009 3:20 PM by: pazarmonia
offline pazarmonia
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 3:20 PM

i sure hope so
thanks everyoine

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offline Pomeganate_Luvr
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 3:17 PM

ask him out
i know u think the guy should do that but if he had any doubts that it was a rumor it would confirm that it wasnt and if he says no he already knew right?? so it dosnt make a difference really

and it sounds like he likes u
because of the break he obviously had a lot of time to think about it but maybe he just still feels awakward around u cuz it was a long break ya know?
it sounds like hes getting used to it now and maybe he'll ask u out soon
good luck ^_^

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offline pazarmonia
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 3:12 PM

of course :]
tomorrow im goig to a basketball game
NOT TO SEE HIM PLAY


ok youu got me, im only going to see him play. and im prepared bc this will only make me fall for him harder (if thats possible) bc hes amazing in every possible way

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offline allis0n
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 3:03 PM
you're welcome!
you gotta keep me updated though =]
offline pazarmonia
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 3:01 PM

thanks ill try talkin tohim more :]
thanks a ton for all your hlep

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offline allis0n
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 3:01 PM
yeah i think he likes you. so i think you should try to talk to him more often. like maybe get his screen name if he has one or his cell phone number or something . then maybe when you feel comfortable then text him. but don't do it all at once or too fast, you don't want to seem annoying lol. just play it cool haha. then once you talk for a while if you want to then you could ask him if he likes you
offline pazarmonia
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 2:52 PM

yea we talk just not as often as i would like

one time (it was right around before cmas break)i asked hm when the next basketball game was (he plays, and i already knew when it was) and he wa slik umm tuesday. then we both just stared at eachother for like 5 seconds, like we wanted t o say something but didnt know what.

our conversations usually go somethng like that. (not the basketball thing the staring thing) or sometimes ill initiaite conversation but he'll keep it going by asking questions about me or something

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offline allis0n
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 2:45 PM
I think that he might like you. Do you guys ever talk (I can't remember if you said that you did)? But if you don't then you definately should start. And if you do, then I would say talk to him more, and flirt more. Or even just straight up ask him if he likes you, and be like, "Okay, so I know you know that I like you. And I just want to know if you like me at all. If not that is totally fine, but I wanna know."

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offline cats4liz
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 2:38 PM

It sounds to me like he's nervous and doesn't know what to make of you.
???

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offline pazarmonia
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 2:36 PM

ok so
in math class we sit in the same row, and we both sit on each end. so i can see him pretty well. and out of the corner of my eye his head kept turning towards my direction, and ic aught him looknig at me a few times. and my friend saw him loo at me then she saw him AND his friend (who he sits beside) look at me.
then me and my friend have different 3rd periods but our rooms are right across from eachother so i go hang out in her room unti the bell rings (hes in her classroom) and today he was stnaindg in the doorway talking to his friend and of couse he moved out of the way so i coudl get by. and then when he came inside the room he knew i was there but he didnt so much as glance at me.
what do you think?
but at least he isnt completely ignoring me

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offline allis0n
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 5, 2009 1:43 PM
yes pleas tell us what happens :)
offline pazarmonia
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 4, 2009 10:19 PM

there were 2 days before cmas break after he found out and he didnt really do anything. and he had some obvious chances to look at me, but then again he was around his friends when he had those chances. but a quick glance wouldnt hurt i guess
but the day afer he found out my friend saw him staring at me when i wa walking into school. but thats about the only time.
and my friend also said he prbly feelfs awkward around me too, and was just taking it all in.
i guess ill see how it goes
thanks a ton you mad eme feel better :] ill let ou know how it goes

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offline VeggieLover
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 4, 2009 9:58 PM

mm well, unless you told him yourself, he may not be sure if you ACTUALLY like him or if its just a rumor. Maybe instead of waiting for him to make the first move, YOU should make the first move. I know youre shy, but so does he, and the fact that you are stepping out of your comfort zone and making an effort will be impressive to him.

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offline allis0n
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 4, 2009 9:45 PM
hmm. well you say that you guys have a lot of eye contact, and that is good. have you gotten any positive signs since he found out you like him? like is there still the eye contact, or have you guys talked at all? if not then he might just be trying to take in the fact that you like him. the break gave him a lot of time to think about you and, if he likes you, maybe how to ask you out, or maybe if he didn't like you before, hes had time to think about if he might like you now and that he would want to give you a chance (idk if that made sense lol). but if he doesn't do something every day he might just be trying not to be really obvious if he likes you. you have to let us know what happens at school and how he acts around you now
offline pazarmonia
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Re: so i've thought about it-here is what is troubling me (help is appreciated)

Jan 4, 2009 9:31 PM

anyone please?

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