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Please help. Please.

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Last Post Nov 1, 2009 6:26 PM by: ♥iWillAlways♥You
offline ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: Please help. Please.

Nov 1, 2009 6:26 PM

I agree with skinnyjeans. You most likely don't really like them if that happens.

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offline creative-chick04
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Re: Please help. Please.

Nov 1, 2009 6:15 PM

Great. anyone else?

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offline skinnyjeans.
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Re: Please help. Please.

Nov 1, 2009 6:03 PM

well when you really really like someone and its not just a crush then most likely you wont have to worry about it.

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offline creative-chick04
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Re: Please help. Please.

Nov 1, 2009 5:58 PM

Yeah someone mentioned Trophy Syndrome. Just in it for the chase. How do I fix that? I just want to be able to like someone for awhile.

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offline skinnyjeans.
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Re: Please help. Please.

Nov 1, 2009 5:15 PM

well im sure you still have plenty of time to worry about getting married, no need to think about it right now.
as for your problem, chances are that what you feel for them at first is more of a crush and then once you start getting to know them there just happens to be things you dont like. its completely natural.
or, a lot of the time we want what we cant have. so once you realize that they like you and you can have them, the appeal kind of wears off.

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offline creative-chick04
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Please help. Please.

Nov 1, 2009 5:12 PM

Okay so every time I like a guy, I really like him and then once I find out that he likes me it's fine for about a week. Then I start seeing stuff I don't like in the guy and I just don't feel like I like him anymore. What is my deal here?
Also, I don't do anything with them. Like maybe hold hands or stuff but I don't sleep with them or even kiss them. I just, how do I fix it. I don't care if I don't have a boyfriend but I do want to get married someday..

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Team Edward
-or-
Team Jacob
--Who to choose? Such a decision...

No, I don't like syrup.