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EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

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Last Post Nov 10, 2009 6:01 AM by: MaddyQueen16
offline MaddyQueen16
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 10, 2009 6:01 AM

Good job for not doing it. But honestly, if he wanted it to be meaningful, he wouldn't have chosen a public bathroom. Save it for the special time and special someone :]♥

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offline Moo Tweety
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 6, 2009 11:08 PM

i didn't do it. i didn't even see him today. i do really love him but he doesn't love me. he is a virgin too so i know he isn't a player.

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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 6, 2009 3:19 PM

please dont do it. you're not even in a realtionship with him for petes sake! you say you love him, but he just wants to use you. if he really loved you back, he would wait til theres no doubt that ur ready. and its obvious ur not if ur asking us.

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offline cathie
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Registered: 7/31/09

Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 6, 2009 2:43 PM

U r right all he want is to get into Ure pants. after that he'll proble leave U 4 another girl who never did it.
he sounds like a player on the look out 4 girl that R still a vergin.
Im only 14 and never di it thaught about it alot. thinking about it make me feel funy all over.
i ve talked over with the girl im going out with. she says its normal having the feeling.
GOOD LUCK JUST KEEP THE HEAD COVERED.

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offline cakez100
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From: new york
Registered: 7/8/09

Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 6, 2009 2:08 PM
heyy
i dont think you should do it..
think about it...like really think about it..
cuz when u lose ur virginity

you cant get it back....
you should lose it with the one you really love
that you can trust and your comftable with....

sooo yea think about it :)
offline poptartl0ver09
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From: Mississippi
Registered: 9/12/09

Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 6, 2009 10:54 AM
Well I'm 14 and I'm still a virgin. I've had thoughts about "doing it" but when you think about it you really don't want to "do it".
offline x.Bekki.x
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 6, 2009 2:09 AM

Omg, don't do it! You're not even in a relationship with him. That's just plain wrong on so many levels. He's just gonna use you for sex. How could you possibly just have a "quicky" in the toilets, and then carry on the way you were with him?
It's just plain wrong. Seriously, don't do it.
But at the end of the day, none of us can decide for you, we can advise you, but it's your decision.

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offline ditzylovesu2
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 10:23 PM

you say you've loved him for 2 years? i don't think you can really love someone that strongly when you are 12.

usually im pretty laid back about this kind of thing. but you are 14.. and he's a 16 year old who doesnt want a relationship.. and what i find most scarry.. he wants to have sex with you in a public restroom instead of going to school.

id say wait until your atleas 15 preferably 16 or 17. if you still think your in love go for it only if you are ready and he's willing to be in a relationship.

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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 10:12 PM

Wow. I'm seeing some pretty terrible advice on here... Obviously, if he doesn't want a relationship, then he is just looking to use you. Just saying. I would not do it. You'll regret it.

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offline sarahboo94
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 7:36 PM

hmm that's something ya have to think about.

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offline Moo Tweety
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 7:34 PM

lol yeah....but i dont wanna be used and i dont wanna be in a TON of trouble.....

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offline sarahboo94
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 7:33 PM

and if you do, do you feel that you won't regret it afterwards?

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offline sarahboo94
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 7:32 PM

well do you want to "do it" with him?

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offline Moo Tweety
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From: over the rainbow.
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 7:31 PM

how do i know if i'm ready? i've like loved him for 2 years...

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offline sarahboo94
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From: Kentucky(:
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Re: EMERGENCY!!!! help me PLZ now

Nov 5, 2009 7:22 PM

well if ur ready then do it but if ur not then DON'T.

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