Girl 101
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Re: WHY does she keep going back to him?!?
Aug 18, 2009 1:08 PM
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I think that you should just leave her be let figure it out on her own and if she keeps coming to you every timr=e they break up and get back together you should tell the boy to stop hurting her and making her come back for more or thats atleast what I would. Oh... and 1 more thing if you were a true friend you would help her get through it.
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KayDee13
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Re: WHY does she keep going back to him?!?
Aug 16, 2009 9:55 AM
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Maybe bring her to a counselor? They are usually pretty good with handling situations like this.
Also, make sure she knows that you are always there for her, and that she can tell you anything. That might get her talking to you and then she might see that he has a problem...
Hope everything works out for the best!
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proudtexasgirl
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Re: WHY does she keep going back to him?!?
Aug 16, 2009 9:53 AM
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well this is a very touchy subject.
your friend has a strong relationship with her bf - not a healthy one but a strong one. she feels connected to him and i would even dare to say that she thinks she loves him. she doesnt see his "faults" even though i would say abuse is a bigger deal than just a flaw in his personality. i cant explain exactly what shes thinking for two reasons: 1) i dont know her, 2) i have never been in an abusive relationship. however, i have had a friend who was in a similar situation as your friend.
my best advice is to be cautious when you are talking to her about her situation. shes obviously having a hard time, whether she recognizes it or not, and if you come on too strong, she may feel pressured by you and shell push you away.
you could try talking to a counselor but dont let counselor or yourself force her into talking about it. she will realize eventually that shes in a bad situation but has to come to that realization herself.
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CheckYesJuliet
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WHY does she keep going back to him?!?
Aug 15, 2009 11:46 PM
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I have a friend... she was both physically and sexually as well as mentally abuse by her ex.
He keeps going back to him, and each time she's convinced that he's changed and nothing bad'll happen again and that everything will be different.
But, of course, each time she comes back black and blue and completely emotionally messed up.
She's sure that it's her fault anyway and now she knows the risks and so she'll forgive him. And she won't listen to me and I don't know how to get her to stop.
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