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Last Post Oct 29, 2009 5:19 PM by: ♥iWillAlways♥You
offline ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: D= this sucks...

Oct 29, 2009 5:19 PM

You could tell her parents. If she was your best friend and you called her house and told her parents you were concerned, they would most likely be okay with it.

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offline BARiTNAYYYY
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Re: D= this sucks...

Oct 29, 2009 5:09 PM

she definitely should stop harming herself.
i totally get what you mean though. everyone sneaks out, everyone (well most) are badasses at times, people take risks. that's a part of life. i hate when parents enforce rules that they didnt even follow. it's called growing up and learning lessons.
i hate when parents take away phones and things like that too? like really, what is that gonna do? nothing. they think itll make you not do it again but really it just makes us more angry and rebellious.

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offline Ownage =]
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Re: D= this sucks...

Oct 29, 2009 3:53 PM
omg you guys dont even know, I was freaking out so bad when I posted this lol
I reread it and it makes no sense...but thanks

I havent talked to her in like 2 days....but idk....who do I tell? Idk what to do! She swore to me she only did it twice and she wouldnt do it again, but I dont know how true that was.

God I miss her so much already =( My social life revolved around her too, she was the only one I could talk to during the day because like everyones at school......uhhhhh
offline bollywoodluvr227
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Re: D= this sucks...

Oct 28, 2009 5:37 PM

I agree with ♥iWillAlways♥You.

Somebody needs to know she's cutting.And it's not all that likely she ended up pregnant,and other than that theres nothing you can do.

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offline ♥iWillAlways♥You
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Re: D= this sucks...

Oct 28, 2009 7:13 AM

Okay well from what I read, this is my advice(haha)
1. TELL SOMEONE. Someone needs to know she's cutting.
2. As for the no condom part, I really don't know what to say. They should have used protection. The only thing you can do about it is wait it out.

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offline Ownage =]
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D= this sucks...

Oct 27, 2009 10:49 PM
oh my god...so hey! Sorry i haven't been on in like weeks lol. Also it wont let me on girltalk, is it down for some reason?

But please!!! I really need to talk to people who will listen!
My best friend (and by best friend I mean I love this girl like she were my freaking twin, I think I can honestly say I would die for her), she's in...big trouble.
2 nights ago she snuck out with her boyfriend. Okay. A lot of people do that, I know. Plus shes not aloud to see this guy, so this is kinda the only way she can.
But you have no idea what her parents are like! Omg, worlds strictest parents, hands down.

But anyway, she was so worried the other night that she'd get caught, like she could get out no problem, but she was worried her parents would get up and lock the door. They didn't.
So she was like, okay I can do this. She asked me if I thought she could get away with going a second time, I told her whatever she wanted, but if she got caught she was (censor(. Guess what?! she got locked out.

So this morning I was sooo worried cause she didnt call me, and this afternoon I got on IM and she was online, she was like "OMG IM NOT EVEN SUPPOSED TO BE ON HERE NIKKI, I GOT CAUGHT, I JUST LOST EVERYTHING!!!!" and she told me that he had sex with her, and she didnt really want to. They didnt use a condom, but I think she's okay...

Her dad probably killed Nathan. Her moms putting her on bc, and she's not allowed to talk to anyone on IM or the phone, or in person obviously. She's grounded until her parents decide otherwise. Okay and grounded for her is...bad. Shes homeschooled, and she cant talk to anyone on the phone/computer/in person. So all she can do is sit in her room and read and do schoolwork.

She told me that she was cutting, and then signed off, probably for good. What can I do about that? How can I help her when I cant talk to her at all? If I showed up in person her parents would be so mad..

I mean I know she kinda asked to get punished, but this is terrible. She's basically a prisoner now. And what teenager doesn't sneak out at at least on point? They had to have seen it coming when they said she could see the guy.

So the jumbled mess that was in my head, is now all here, and I hope you can read it and make sense of it. If you cant thats fine lol But yeah...Who could handle living in the basement with no computer or phone? cause thats how she has to live now, for a long time, probably. and idk when i can talk to her again. And shes freakin hurting herself!!!!!
UHHHGGGG, Im crying :( lol

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