tammy08
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Re: I caught my boyfriend,
Dec 13, 2008 3:40 PM
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it's hard to quit.
help him find a a group to join. it will be easier for him.
don't dump him because he is addicted to something
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do you ever think
when you're all alone
all that we can be
where this thing can go
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Frootii
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Re: I caught my boyfriend,
Dec 13, 2008 2:33 PM
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oh wait how longs has he been trying to quit?
the whole 7 months you been together?
i thought you meant like it was all happening just recently?
because 7 months is a long time...
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Don't walk in front of me,
I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me,
I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend. =)
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Im 14 years young!
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Mr Pancake
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Re: I caught my boyfriend,
Dec 13, 2008 2:29 PM
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...chewing tabaco.
Ah. I was thinking of something else.
Well.... I guess maybe it would be best to help the guy find some professional help for it or something? He obviously can't seem to do it alone.
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Common Sense is my sixth sense.
I like your questions. They taste of yummy.
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Frootii
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Re: I caught my boyfriend,
Dec 13, 2008 2:23 PM
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...chewing tabaco.
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♥
Don't walk in front of me,
I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me,
I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend. =)
♥
Hey, Im Nikki.
Im 14 years young!
Get to know me!
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Mr Pancake
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Re: I caught my boyfriend,
Dec 13, 2008 2:19 PM
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What's "dipping"?
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Common Sense is my sixth sense.
I like your questions. They taste of yummy.
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Laura;;*
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Re: I caught my boyfriend,
Dec 13, 2008 2:04 PM
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If he has been lieing to you about that, then why wouldn't he have the intensions of lieing to you again.
Not that people cant quit or change, but i think you need to break up with him. because he probably will keep doing it, so perhaps you should break up with him temperarilly until he does quit.
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Frootii
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Re: I caught my boyfriend,
Dec 13, 2008 1:42 PM
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i think you should give him a chance to quit.
its not easy to just quit something, just like that.
maybe give him a couple weeks? and tell him if he doesnt quit by then then you guys have to break up.
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♥
Don't walk in front of me,
I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me,
I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend. =)
♥
Hey, Im Nikki.
Im 14 years young!
Get to know me!
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heyhaylee!
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Dec 13, 2008 12:41 PM
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I'm so mad right now!
I caught my boyfriend dipping this morning, after he's been telling me how well he's doing and stuff, and I yelled at him for it, because basically he's been lying to me about it. He's been doing it since he was like 15- so he's an addict now.
But we got in this big argument, and he said he IS quitting, and that he's wheening off of it. And yeah I guess it makes sense and all, but IT'S JUST SO BAD FOR HIM! It's disgusting and he knows it, and wants to quit. When I told my mom what happened, (My mom & I are really close) she said that I should just dump him for lying to me about it for two months. But I never caught him until now..
So I don't know? I mean we've been together now for almost 7 months, I don't think I have it in me to end it so soon.
What should I do? What would you do if you were me?
Thanks!
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