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no boys like me

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Last Post Nov 23, 2008 10:56 AM by: CLASSY LADY 1
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From: Iowa
Registered: 11/23/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 23, 2008 10:56 AM
IT DOES JUST TAKE TIME IF U RUSH HIM HE WILL JUST SAY NO BUT IF U GIVE HIM TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT HE MIGHT EVEN TALK TO U MORE AND THEN U KNOW HE LIKES YOU








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From: South Lake Tahoe
Registered: 11/15/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 22, 2008 8:56 PM
well sometimes if your young, boys wont want to say that they like you, but if they insult you like that, it sometimes means they like you. SOMETIMES. but dont worry, it just takes time.
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Re: no boys like me

Nov 21, 2008 9:23 PM
well first off, realize those guys who called you ugly dont deserve you.
because you can do so much better.
realize that ur a beautiful person inside and out.=
forget the bad things of the past.
look foward to the good things of the future.
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From: B MORE 4 EVA
Registered: 10/2/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 21, 2008 8:19 PM

boyz did not lik me either but then dis year they did and i new them scence kindergaten so things can change

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From: Orlando Fl. / Coral Springs
Registered: 11/19/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 21, 2008 2:41 PM
i had the same problem too but i said wat ever to the past and i just went on but when i got to 9th grade everything changed i started gettin all these guys and they all were so cute but then there was one that stood out from all its been 6 months now for and im happpy but my sayin is there is Always somebody out there for each person you just haven't found him/her yet
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From: The middle of nowhere (New Hampshire)
Registered: 6/4/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 20, 2008 8:56 PM

Just because you have no boyfriend now doesn't mean that no guys like you. I felt that way for a while, then I realized that I should just stop worrying about it. A little while later, this amazing guy asked me out...

Just ride out the tough spots for now. Things always get better!

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From: New York Ciity
Registered: 11/19/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 20, 2008 2:34 PM

dont get all sad. i felt the same way in the september when no boy would ask me out or like me. u just have to give it time and someone will come.

it happened to me veryy unexpectidly.

so never give up luck because there a lot of boys who like you out there.

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From: South Dakota
Registered: 11/18/07

Re: no boys like me

Nov 19, 2008 7:03 PM

that's not true. it's just that the boys that ur falling for aren't the right ones.
there is someone out there for everyone. don't give up hope.
seriously, as you get older and more mature, you'll realize this.

guys like confidence. show some confidence! and be nice. be calm. maybe ur doing something that makes guys think that ur unavailable, or that ur not interested. so make sure the guys know that you ARE interested. but don't seem desperate, cuz that's a turn-off for guys too.

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From: Hertfordshire, England
Registered: 9/17/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 19, 2008 6:56 PM

Aww, don't worry, you're not alone.

Someone will like you.
Everyone is likeable in their own way. It just takes the right sort of person. And when the right guy comes along, you won't feel scared at all.

*Hug*

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From: right here
Registered: 11/12/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 19, 2008 5:07 PM

story of my life hun.

i know how you feel. but i have found that if you surround yourself with good guys and dont search for a relationship but more for friendship, then things get way better.

i also found that guys tend to like girls a lot more when they are friends with them first.

so just take some time to get to know some guys and become their good friends. it will work out eventually, just dont rush it.

and my friend was best friends with this one guy for like 8 years and he ended up liking her for 4 years. it just takes some time. and you'll feel better to because you are going out with someone you really like, and who likes you back, and it won't feel like you are together because you wanted a bf but are together because you two are good for each other.

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Registered: 9/14/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 19, 2008 4:55 PM

just dont focus on dating. dont fouc on relationships. if u constantly hoep and think about it, ull put so much extra stress on ursel. the time will come. might be soon or u might have to be patient, either way, dont overthink it becaus eit will happen.

the biggest prob with people in ur situation is they put so much extra stress and pressure looking and hoping, just live ur life man, something will happen, but dont look for it to happen.

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Registered: 8/20/08

Re: no boys like me

Nov 19, 2008 4:52 PM
there is no point in worrying about what has already happened. Try to forget the past and look to the future. There are plenty guys in this world who im sure find you attractive. and you have the rest of your life to find someone. Just focus on what you need to do now like school, having fun with friends and building strong relationships. Boys aren't everything and you should let their words bring you down. I didn't date until i was 17 and i am happy i waited so long.
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From: west side
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no boys like me

Nov 19, 2008 4:21 PM

i am so sick and tired of this,each time i like a boy he never likes me back,they either like my friend or either some other girl,i am getting so annoyed,i dont know what is wrong with me i feel like i am about to cry.the bad thing about it is that i feel like i would never date because,and i am scared that no boy would ever like me, even if a boy did like me,i probably wouldnt date him becasue i am to scared to move forward and get over the boys that said i was ugly and didnt like me,i want to be ready for a relationship but im scared to move foward becasue what boys said about me in the past and say about me now.i feel so lost.what should i do?

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