I CAN'T BELIEVE IT! IT'S LIKE I'M CHEATING ON MY BF!

yeah i think u and andrew should talk and if u like him mre than jonathan then go for him. but dont lead andrew on while still going with jon or you wont on ly be without a bf but a bff and u will prob get other girls and guys mad as andrew and jon's friends.

i think u should stop doing "romantic" things w/ andrew until u tell jonathan. i think u should call jonathan and tell him u wann break up, (if thats wat u wanna do) THEN do back to andrew, but u need 2 decide wich boy u want, personally i think andrew sounds like the one who cares about u most, but i dont no them...

my last relationship something like that happened. see my and my bf (let's call him T) went to different schools, but went to the same church, and we only got to see each other tues, wed, thurs, and sun. so my best guy friend (let's call him J) are really close and J's always told me how much he likes me and how he doesnt think that T is right for me. at the time i had had a crush on T for like a year, so i was really excited when he asked me out. but i had recently developed a crush on J. anyways long story short 1 day at school J was walking me to class and when we got there J kissed me, at 1st i didnt kiss back cause it felt bad but then i started kissing back and it felt really good. well that same day T broke up with me b/c he was cheating on me with someone else, so i decided i never really cheated, and i ended up going out with J and it was great

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No more broken heart for me, no more tellin your lies to me, no more waitin for you at night, no more havin to fuss and fight. i'm proud to say that I will never make the same mistake, theres no more me running back to you

Well, this is going to b a very long story.....
I have a bf, Jonathan, and we've been 2gether for quite a long time. I love him very very much but lately it feels like our passion has been slowly fading. Also I have a friend, Andrew. He's one of my very best friends. He's a very, shy, quiet guy and he doesn't like to participate in things. He's usually distant from most people so most of the time, they think he's creepy, but I know the real him. He's sweet and funny and VERY smart.

Anyways, Andrew and I are very close and he's been inlove with me for quite a while now(I don't c y). I've always felt bad about how it hurts him to c me with Jonathan(especially since Jonathan is stupid and perverted). Andrew's told me time and time again how he worries Jonathan might hurt me. He's also dropped enough hints that he wants to b with me. Although, he never tried to seriously flirt with me or romance me into being with him. The most he's ever done was hug me or kiss my hands or say that he loves me.

That's why I was really shocked when we were hanging out in my back yard a few days ago and he kissed me! I wasn't mad or upset, just really shocked. He felt really bad about it, but i told him not to. What's weird is that in the back of my mind, I've always known I liked him a little more than just a friend and I also wanted to kiss him.

Then, some weird force inside of me controlled me to bring up the time Jonathan kissed another girl and told me to kiss another guy so we'd b even(that was just a few weeks before). I told Andrew I was going to b a little spiteful to Jonathan and I kissed him back.....twice.

We had a looooong talk and I finally decided I'm going to tell Jonathan about me and Andrew and I'll take what's gonna come to me. I know what's going to happen. Jonathan had even told me before if Andrew ever tried anything with me, I'd tell him and stop being friends with Andrew, But if I didn't tell him, it's over...

It's been days since then(except for yesterday when something else happened but i'm not gonna get into that) and the reason y I haven't told Jonathan yet is because I've been waiting until I see him, but I haven't gotten a chance to yet.

I jus feel so bad about cheating on him like that(at least, this seems like cheating 2 me). I've always hated people who cheat and I always told myself if a guy ever did that 2 me, I'd leave him flat. I feel like such a hypocrit.

I wanna kno if u girls have ever had a romance with some1 else while u were dating another guy. How did u get through it? If u haven't then do u have any advise 4 some1 who has?