alleykat
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Nov 4, 2009 8:31 PM
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Im totally for it, but only if you know that this guy is safe and will not hurt you or put you in any danger. I dated a guy who was 22 and im 18 ( was 17 when I actually dated him) Its only really a bad thing if there is like a year age difference. I know tht this probably sounds really bad to some people but its really hard to explain every thing exactly, if i werent so tired i would elaborate more but I dont see a proble with it, it just seems wrong to thoughs who have never dated any older than them
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beverly hills
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Nov 4, 2009 7:21 PM
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i dont find the age diffrence approppiate , my BFF Hope is 13 and her BF is 16,i think that is inapproppriate to.
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funinKentucky
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Nov 4, 2009 8:25 AM
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i dont see the big deal.im 13 and ive dated guys as old as 28.its alot of fun being with guys taht are mature and know what to do if youu kno what i mean...lol
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Farah Is Beyond Alive
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Oct 26, 2009 5:33 PM
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I personally had the same problem at fifteen. Same ages too. I dated him for two months. He ended up using and wasn't mature as I thought he would be. I think it is fine just becareful and don't be stupid.
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OFcheerleader14
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Oct 26, 2009 5:08 PM
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theres no way 2 kno...good luck! but keep ur eyes out fr signs if he is getting a lil sexual and makes u uncomfortable! it can work if ur careful and comfortable!
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googlegirl
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Oct 26, 2009 12:18 PM
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Age only seems to matter in jr. high/high school. My fiance was dating a girl (they broke up over a year ago) and they started when she was 15 1/2 and he was 18. They both turned a year old while they were dating but (obviously) it didn't work out. She was extremely immature (she's one of my friends, so I do really know that!) then, so that had everything to do with their break up.
One of my best friends is (not dating yet but involved with and soon to be dating) 17 and with a guy who's 26! Her parents love him, we all grew up at the same church, and I have a feeling they are going to work out and probably get married!
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babycakes.
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Oct 20, 2009 5:21 PM
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If he's that much older, then he most likely will find someone new. I don't mean to sound mean, but it's the truth. Guys that age are VERY invovled with sex and like developed girls, if you know what I mean. I just don't think it will last very long. But, hey, it might. Good luck. :]
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Pomeganate_Luvr
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Oct 20, 2009 5:16 PM
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well, he probably will meet someone else
he's a bit too old for you
and age is NOT just a number
like skinnyjeans said, youre both at very different times in your life and the maturity and experience level just doesnt match
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JoGirl
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Oct 20, 2009 4:43 PM
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i have this problem too, but i don't go as far as dating, just really close. it seems like all guys my age are complete and utter idiots. i can't stand most of them, and the ones i can stand are gay. i also seem to have a thing for guys named Tyler becuz i've fallen hardest for the two guys in my life that are named tyler. pathetic. and one of thems eighteen and the other is twenty. keep trying, but be prepared for disagreements, becuz it is a big age difference.
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proudtexasgirl
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Oct 20, 2009 7:40 AM
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honestly, it probably wont work especially since you already dont trust him after only one month. dont get me wrong, im 17 and my bf is 21 but there is a difference between a 17 yr old and 14 yr old. if you want it to work, get over it. trust him and be aware that you might get hurt.
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twitchy17
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Oct 20, 2009 6:20 AM
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You have a chance, and you'll more than likely keep getting along with him if you try to trust him.
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dudettex
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Oct 20, 2009 12:24 AM
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i know it aint. but still, so far we're getting along ..
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skinnyjeans.
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Oct 20, 2009 12:13 AM
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1 month is not a long time at all.
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dudettex
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Oct 20, 2009 12:07 AM
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ydea but it'S been 1 month and 1 week we'Ve been dating and we get along fine.. its just the people who judge our age difference get annoyin.
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At this moment there are 6,470,818,671 people in the world. Some are running scared. Some are coming home. Some tell lies to make it through the day. Others are just not facing the truth. Some are evil men, at war with good. And some are good, struggling with evil. Six billion people in the world, six billion souls. And sometimes... all you need is one.
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skinnyjeans.
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Oct 20, 2009 12:05 AM
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honestly it most likely wont work out between you. i was in the same situation at your age. there is a big difference in maturity and just where you are at in you life compared to where he is at in his life.
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