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should i be upset?

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Last Post Jul 11, 2009 12:50 AM by: Celly_Dancer
offline Celly_Dancer
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From: Iowa
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Re: should i be upset?

Jul 11, 2009 12:50 AM

Well, if she's in other sports or somthing she could be having a sports or club party that your not in. Or well I have lots of really close friends but somtimes i get to talking with one or two or more and we decide to have a slumber party kinda our own little thing. Somtimes my other friends get upset but i'm like well get over it you know there was probably a reason she didn't invite you ask her about it don't jump to conclusions i've done that before and then if she had a reason she could get mad at you and you've just made it alot worse. which trust me i've done. Just talk to her, and try to understand. good Luck! :) :)

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offline beautiful*renee
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Re: should i be upset?

Jul 11, 2009 12:17 AM

You should confront her.

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offline a.fitchh
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Re: should i be upset?

Jul 11, 2009 12:14 AM

it depends how close of a friend she is. if it's a closer friend, i'd be upset. if it's just a friend you talk to sometimes, i wouldn't get worked up about it. talk to her, see what she says. explain to her how you felt about it too.

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offline ~Aria_Forever~
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Re: should i be upset?

Jul 10, 2009 10:47 PM
Ha. Well that kind of sucks!
If I were you, I would talk to her about it. Although you should never assume, in the end, you might just find that she's not as good of a friend as you thought she was.
offline Softball_Chickie_10
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Re: should i be upset?

Jun 30, 2009 11:41 AM

well do yall go to the same school?
maybe she doesnt see you as good of a friend as you see her

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offline breebaby
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Re: should i be upset?

Jun 27, 2009 2:09 PM

your the fisher and your friend is the fish, ok? you cant make that fish come to you. maybe she was worried about reputation, or maybe her parents just dont like you. dont be worried about that, its little, not big...... actually maybe i should start talking things out with my friend. im having probs with her. sort-of like you but worse.

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offline jojocutie101
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Re: should i be upset?

Jun 23, 2009 6:57 PM

talk to her about it...do not jump to conclusions because then it could get messy.

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Re: should i be upset?

Jun 21, 2009 3:52 PM
maybe its her parents that dont want you there. try talking to her about it.
offline becca_babe x0
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Re: should i be upset?

Jun 21, 2009 1:04 PM

Well maybe she was only allowed to invite a few friends over and just felt her immediate friends were closer i dunno she doesnt seem like a true/real friend. but i would definately talk to her its not right for you to be treated like thta.

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Re: should i be upset?

Jun 21, 2009 12:40 PM
she might have had a good reason, like she knew that they were going to watch a bunch of scary movies and she knows that you hate scary movies..

or she was just trying to invite people she doesnt hang out with much...

just ask her about it but stay calm when she answers you.
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Re: should i be upset?

Jun 21, 2009 12:35 PM
Well like, do you really enjoy her company/trust her etc? Like, do you consider yourself proper friends with her? Because if so then thats kind of hurtful. And maybe ask her why. I would anyway. Just be like 'oh i heard you had a party.. i thought we were good enough friends for me to come?' or something less direct, maybe 'i heard you had a party'.

If you dont actually consider yourself that good friends, maybe just stop asking her to your stuff.
offline hoopsgurll123
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Registered: 6/21/09

should i be upset?

Jun 21, 2009 12:31 PM
my "friend" lives on the same block as me & she had a little party but didnt invite me. im kind of upset and hurt that she didnt ask me to come. the reason im so upset is cuz i invite her to EVERY SINGLE party i have and even when i have 2 girls over, she always comes...i feel like shes just using me to have a good time and this isnt the first get-together shes had. i know she has had lots of other sleepovers..i really dont understand y she never invites me..

what is going on and what should i do about it?:|