Hey girlys! It's Katy! I didn't get a chance to finish off Summer's blog yesterday on sex and stuff, so I'm writing my own! yay! :]

First of all I'll start out on what the topic is, GYNOCOLOGIST (I think I spelled that right..) Anyways this is how is allll goes down..
I know it can be nerve wracking, whether it's you first time or 35th! It's always a little weird to open up to a stranger like that and say "hey, it's nice to meet you- wanna see my vagina?" But that's the thing, they're not exactly a stranger, they're doctors it's what they do. Don't hesitate to ask questions or tell him/her what's going on with your body!
SO anyways, I'd suggest in seeing a woman, it's a personal choice I just find it easier to open up to a woman like that, then a male! Girls know what cramps feel like and what tampons feel like- boys don't! Hah! Anywhooo you go in read some old magazines, they call your name and sometimes they make you pee in a cup for a urine sample to check it out or sometimes they don't. So you follow her in, they check your breathing, pulse, blood pressure all that good stuff. Then she goes alright, follow me and we'll get you started! That's when your tummy drops and the nerves kick in! Then the doctor comes in and answers any questions you have, ex; about birth control, sex anything you want to know more about. Then she asks you to put on this vest and paper gown thing and to sit on your back on the table- put the heel of your foot into the stirrup things. She turns a light on to see you better- then WHAM she pulls out a drill!!
Haha just kidding, that's awful..I shouldn't have said that :]
Picture it this way, its basically a tampon made out of metal, and she puts that in, easy right? RIGHT! Then it slowly dialates the opening so the doctor can see and make sure everything looks healthy, then she just takes a q-tip and swabs gently, then guess what? It's over!
It's not painless persay, but it's just uncomfortable- like someone pulling your hair or something.
Nothing to be worried about! Before you know it's over and your dreading the next appt. haha in a year :]

Hope that helped a little bit, it's nothing to be scared of, always remember it's for your health!!

Now the famous talk of sex, THE SEX TALK!

I can't speak for all girls on this, I'm speaking from personal experience actually. The two main points I want to get across to everyone of you is that there's pretty much two kinds of 'losing it' the kind that it's with someone you don't care about- and the kind that is!
Say you like this guy and you think he likes you too, you hang out alot on weekends like the same sports or whatever, and one night one thing leads to another, and you're having sex with this boy. Does it SOUND like a big deal? NO it doesn't because you think you like him and yadda yadda yadda. Reality is, that when you lose it to someone, anyone doesn't matter who afterwards you're always going to feel a little less whole, like a piece of the puzzle just fell out of the box. Sex can make and break relationships like that- and by that I mean a snap of a finger! Rumors get started, jealousy happens, you can turn against eachother saying stuff like "Oh he wasn't good at all, or she didn't know what was happening.." Sex isn't fun for the first times, it can be painful and heartbreaking. Or sometimes it's not, it can be exhilarating and can bring you to a whole different level of closeness. It all depends on who, where, how, and why. Bottom line, wait for someone you care about to come along and don't do it out of a drunken act of teenage life. It's totally not worth it to see someone you shared that with, not even care a blink of an eye about what happens to you, how you feel or anything.

Sorry if that what a little choppy, I need to keep working on structuring my lectures :]

Any questions, concerns, comments?
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PS: Summer says hiiiii! <3

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♥ alwaysssssss KATY! & SUMMER